Im a girl that fell for a girl

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Gonna try to make this as short as I can. I'm a girl that wrong a girl a few years back, when we met I asked for the number and the response was "I never talked to a girl before " but I got the number still.As the months progressed we got close we we were INSEPERABLE, and she lived thousands of miles away but we were.Then feelings turned into LOVE I actually loved this girl more than others from the past she was SPECIAL.. we talked about everything saw each other every chance that came and she even told me once "I better not be cheating ".Then because of the relationship she had with this guy she got scared and backed away from me for a few weeks, Anyway once we spoke again I was told by her that she was falling for me and I'm supposed to be her friend. I was honored she felt that was but confused because she was the one that wanted the friendship anyways. Well after that we got closer, still as friends but it was obvious to my family and friends that we liked each other but no one from her side knew anything. Long story short I've finally confessed that I still want something more and her response wasn't really exciting. She stated that she's not gay and were still just friends but all the moments we shared had me in love. At this point I'm suppose to be in the movin on stage but for some reason my heart and my instincts tell me "its something there" . I don't wanna seem stupI'd to love someone that keeps sayin were friends but we don't act like friends and my emotions are confused. Am i stupid? I don't know what to do.It hurts soo bad to see her with anyone .I want to be happy but I can't because something keeps tellin me shes the one ,she's just scared. I DON'T KNOW HELP ME.

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  • womyn
    9 years ago

    I know what you are going through. I stopped in my tracks when I first saw this woman at my work, she is so hot, we have been flirting with each other for a year, I finally asked her out for a drink and she said she can't, she didn't say why, I was shocked because she had been acting like she wanted something with me. I found out that she has been with a guy for the past twenty years. I know for sure she has feelings for me and she still wants to continue flirting but that is all I am getting, very frustrating, I want to forget her, somehow. If I were you, keep spending time with her unless it hurts too much, then try to move on.

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  • starie
    9 years ago

    You can't force someone to admit their feelings for you. Maybe she does love you and just can't allow herself to be with you, either way, it's her choice.

    Some people find it more difficult to grasp the idea that they have true feelings for someone of the same sex. If she doesn't want to take that path, you can't force her.

    It seems like you love her a lot. Sometimes you have to let the people you love go. It may hurt but as long as you're there for her, that's all that matters.

    Being friends with someone you're in love with is hard but it's worth it to not lose them.

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  • anon232677
    9 years ago

    I can understand this feeling, sadly. Theres not much you can do, just show her you care and always be there.

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