Im 20 and have never had a boyfriend.

I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend. I'm a normal weight, people tell me I'm pretty, funny and smart but there is no guy that stays interested for more than 2 weeks. Every guy that I was dating has stopped seeing me for someone else. I had one guy leave me for my brother ( its a fun story to tell) one guy had 4 girlfriends. One guy I dated stopped seeing me for a girl he's now married to (good for them). Another guy told me his little brother got in a car crash an hour before our date ( later found out that wasn't true) Then the rest of the guys just straight up stop talking to me without an explanation. Is it normal to have such bad luck?

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  • MisterPanic

    Same story here but I'm a boy and I'm just 17. 20 isn't really old though, I know lots of people who haven't had a relationship around that age while most of them look good and are very nice, so I guess it's just bad luck.

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  • TareBear20

    You've clearly had a boyfriend. Just been short term. The right one will come along :)

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  • Airea

    You're young, so I would not worry about not being in a long-term relationship based on your age. But besides that, I mean yes its normal to run into more than your fair share of jackasses while dating, and its normal for some of the good ones to just not be in the right place to stick around. It seems like you've just had a string of genuine bad luck. Without knowing you personally I cannot tell if you might be doing something on your dates that could be making them think you aren't interested or the like, but it really just seems like unfortunate luck. It will pick up though!

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  • mlig

    dude, you're twenty. I'm in a relationship now that i kind of wish i wasn't. BELIEVE ME they're not all they're cracked up to be. I'm also twenty and this is my second girlfriend. I used to be a lover not a dater if you catch my drift. Point is, we're young, we should be out having fun, going to school,working, getting drunk, and having awesome random sex with strangers. Not worrying about someone as insecure as people our age are. Now i hate to say it, but maybe my mom wasnt to wrong when she said "youre too young to date". Save dating for when you're like 28

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  • Emerald33

    You're only 20. That's still young bro. It's not like your 70 or some shit

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    • dandanjam

      I'm not a bro.

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      • TheHOTTIEbarhar

        Lighten up! Have a sense of humor, bro! :) Don't take life so seriously

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  • littlelulu1999

    sounds like you need to take a serious break from dating for a while....at least a break from the current population of men that you are selecting dates from....during your break you should sit down and make a list of things you want/would like and things you absolutely don't want, and then using this list (which can change over time) come up with questions to ask up front from guys to try to figure out if this is someone you want to get to know a little longer, or someone that's wasting your time....then after your dating break....PLEASE come up with new places from which to meet guys at, because it sounds like you're meeting a bunch of losers from the same area or the same source (like a certain neighborhood or certain school)...go to some new events in new neighborhoods or other schools....there are better quality fish in other ponds!

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  • you@me

    One day you will have and when that day comes you will be happy that the other guys didn't have you

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  • psm45

    Is it normal for a guy to leave you for your brother? You must be a succubus

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    • dandanjam

      He was bi and my brother is gay

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