Iinl to have a relationship with a girl who has a girlfriend?

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please some advise: i am going out with this girl, it's like she is practically my gf and she treats me like I am her bf, only thing is, she already has a gf herself, and I am SO SO SO confused sometimes, it's like I'm fine, not really jealous or anything but I often wonder if it's correct, or maybe responsible for the 2 of us to do this thing? I swear I don't know, she is so pretty and nice and all so yeah I am head over heels for her but I just keep wondering. Please help me

Oh and her gf doesn't really know about us, so we are cheating on her, well, she is.

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    Does her girlfriend know about you?

    Are you and she ok with the arrangement?

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    • BigBoyYeon
      7 years ago

      her girlfriend doesn't know about us, tho I know her personally and she's actually a cool girl, but no, she doesn't know a thing , or at least that's what I've been told.

      I am ok, to a certain extent, because when we started dating and going out we were doing it for 3 months , and then one day she hit me with the news that her friend wasn't just a friend but actually her girlfriend, so that felt weird, had I known beforehand I wouldn't have dragged myself into this situation and I think she knew about that so she just decided to keep it under cover

      but now it feels weird cause I developed feelings and attachment and stuff

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      • charli.m
        7 years ago

        Then she is cheating on her girlfriend with you. Are you ok with being in an adulterous relationship and the possible consequences?

        Are you ok with being in a relationship with someone who lies, manipulates and cheats, and the consequences of that?

        If it were me, I'd ditch the bitch.

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  • rltg4711
    7 years ago

    Not every person is as they are suppose to be. So many follow their own drum and are therefor individual and there are not enough of them within the fabric of society. So many follow like sheep and hide within the flock and never divulge the truth about themselves. At least your Girlfriend (notice I actually spelt out the entire word and not simply the shallow way of doing it by typing 'gf') That because I come from the old school and still use English words as they were meant to be used. Having said that, your Girlfriend has at least opened up to you and told you she has a girlfriend of her own. Nothing wrong with this, within the eyes of your girlfriend, so give her credit for being honest and forget all about exactly who is cheating on who. Or to be more precise and correct ....... whome is cheating on whom. If you feel uncomfortable, tell her and is she still desires to have a girlfriend, then set her free, or find a solution that you are comfortable with, without disrupting your girlfriends wants.

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  • tittle
    7 years ago

    She's certainly getting the most out of both of you

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  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    Cheating is really fucked up of her, not the best for you either. If she has a big ass I understand, but it is still wrong.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    While this disqualifies your girlfriend as a quality girl, this is a great chance for a threesome. I'd enjoy it if I were you, but don't take this relationship seriously.

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    • charli.m
      7 years ago

      Yeah because the girlfriend's girlfriend is definitely into cock because lesbians aren't a thing.

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        OP didn't mention that the gf's gf was a lesbian.

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        • charli.m
          7 years ago

          He also didn't say she was bi. Or polyamorous.

          What do the only two books you've read have to say about such a situation?

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          • riffraffy
            7 years ago

            Ouch, hate it when wit is wasted on a spiteful woman. I'm beginning to think you're not worth talking to.

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            • charli.m
              7 years ago

              Wit? Cute.

              Deluded, but cute.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    Don't be its normal I'm bi sexual I have a boyfriend been seeing him 2 yrs but also have a girlfriend who I have been seeing 18 months both are happy with arrangement as am I I love them both very much

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    • GetALifeAndStopJackingIt
      7 years ago

      No you don't, you lying piece of shit. Get a life you ugly ass old man.

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  • idontcaree
    7 years ago

    This is totally normal and most people do it regularly.

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    • BigBoyYeon
      7 years ago

      it is? it feels weird to me man, first time something this complex occurs to me , ty for response!

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