Iinl for girlfreind to sleep in tent for 5 days with guy on hike?

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Hi my partner went on a trip to collect samples but had quite a lot of weight with her. One of the guys (young,fit, single) offered to let her share his tent. Tent was small 2 man. I trust her but cant help feeling a bit uncomfortable with the situation as Im pretty sure the group could have helped to carry her tent. Plus as the tent was small they would have been quite snug. Should I feel bad about this?

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  • --ash--
    12 years ago

    If It was me, I would have been on her like a rat up a drain pipe!

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  • darren3
    12 years ago

    Her tent partener now has one more notch on his bed post. I wonder if he was a gentle lover? Hmmm?

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    • derker
      12 years ago

      I have NEVER eaten that ever what are you saying I want to what taken previously you said it would be the last thing but you lied about it not me. I don't understand at all.

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  • hellostrangers
    12 years ago

    He fucked her brains out. Good luck with your relationship sucker!

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  • Doodlebrain
    12 years ago

    Just make sure they never ever see each other again. That'll sort it out.

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    • Jen118584
      12 years ago

      Yes, kill him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    its ok man i feel your pain look just confront her about how your feeling and if she gets pissed or upset you gotta tell her to ht the road

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    Best not to think about it...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    She came back to YOU didn't she? If she'd enjoyed 5 days with a young fit guy she would still be with him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    if you trust her then put it aside

    unless you want to make it into an issue.

    or better yet... any reason you couldn't have joined in on the hike?

    I'd suggest...
    when she comes back, just say that you were "sooo envious of everyone else" and show her how much you missed her.

    Then drop it.

    if she asks you why you were envious, just say that you missed her so much, and show her how much you love and missed her.

    then drop it.

    seriously... you can dwell on the fact that her body was lying near another mans. or you can really trust her and drop the issue... and show her how much you missed her until you both can't walk straight.

    cos dwelling on it is the magic way... to lose a girlfriend

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  • Pepper
    12 years ago

    I agree with Jen completely. This is where you don't worry about it, and when she comes back you say, for next time know that I'm uncomfortable with it.

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  • Jen118584
    12 years ago

    Yeah, you are justified, in my opinion, but it might not be rational to be upset. I mean I would be too but I'm not always the most rational person. It was probably really helpful to her not to have to carry a tent around for five days. Even if nothing actually happened, which I'm sure it didn't since she even told you about it in the first place, it's just kind of awkward. It probably pisses you off that she shared that space with another guy for five nights but hey, she came home to you right? You'll probably just have to let this one go. Make sure she knows for the future though that this kind of thing makes you uncomfortable.

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago

    It comes down to one question... Do you trust her? If not, your relationship is over. If you do, then you wouldn't think about it twice b

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    • letsgetiton623
      12 years ago

      Dude I feel for him bc honestly every guy on the face of the earth would get nervous if his girlfriend had to share a small tent with a young fit and single guy.

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