Is it normal you hate her, but you don't, but you do?

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Ever had that one person you care a s**tload for... and you don't know wtf is going on in her head regarding you?
you don't know who she's screwing... who she calls with those credits you get her, with the phone you got her. You don't know whether she means it if she says she loves you 'cause she's kissed you when she was dating somebody else. Ever get that? Then you don't know why the f**k she's ignoring your texts when shes online... Who the hell she's talking to when you know she knows you're waiting. Why the hell wont she leave you alone if she doesn't care???? I mean, whats the point of leaving 100 missed calls before she gets something she really wants to nothing... Not one after she gets it. Really want to tell her just how effing badly I hate her but that would be a lie. It really pisses me the hell off though. Wtf Does one have to do to let her know!!!~!???

Im not her dude or anything. Id like to be but i got shot down already. I've mentioned i want to forget her but she's always back a month later. I don't get it. Am i being used?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    You can't change other people, so lets look at you.
    From your post, you:

    -are not in a relationship with this girl
    -want to know who she's calling
    -want to know who she's having sex with
    -call her repeatedly and maybe excessively
    -feel some hostility towards her ("hate")

    On the other hand, she:

    -said she loved you, at least once [?]
    -ignores your repeated/excessive calls
    -keeps you at a distance
    -dates other men, not you
    -calls other men, not you

    I don't know for sure, but from your post, you seem a bit obsessed and stalker-ish. Maybe she thought you were nice, but you expect more than she's willing to give and you freak her out by calling so much.

    Advice: Only make room in your heart for those who are willing to stay in it. It hurts when those we love the most don't seem to want us as much as we want them, but it's imperative to move on.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      YOu got a point. Who she's calling or doing isn't any of my business. I cant say I call her at all really. not much need to since we live next door to each other with open back yards. But guess its safe to say that I'm the one who avoids her. A failing method to forget about her cause like it or not we bump into each other fairly often. I guess what I really want is just a little bit of closure.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Lots of women out there. Pick another one. I will tell you something, It doesn't work out with everyone so take a break and go for another chick who will like, love and respect you. Forget this one now...

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  • LizardSkin
    10 years ago

    I've felt this way about ex's. A girl that won't even give me the time of day in the first place? Fuck that dude, move on.

    When you stop letting her use you and cut her off, you'll find out where she really stands.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    That last sentence. "Am I being used?" Yes. Yes you are. Ask yourself this. Is she the type of girl who would use people? Have you been her support in any way? Does she stick around you even though she's already rejected you? If you answered yes any one of these if not all..she's using you and you need to high tail it away from that biatch until you find some one worth while. This woman is wasting your time.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    10 years ago

    Before anything, I think you need to seriously tell this girl how you really feel about her, and ask her why she ignores your calls. It is true that she could just be playing mind games, but you'll never know if you don't say anything. Talk to her about it. Put it out there. Get down to the bottom of things, and take it from there. Good luck!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Yes. Could you point out some things that might indicate that she's not using you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I really cant give you much to go on there except for the fact that in the year's I've known her... she didn't seem to be the type of girl to get off on that sorta thing. sh'es cool. I'f you'd met her I'm sure you'd find it difficult to pull out negetive about her. Maybe I'm the problem here...

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