Is it normal worrying about my gf telling people my secrets after we break up?

My girlfriend has quite a bit of dirt on me: Stuff that I'd only tell her or stuff that only she knows. I know we won't be together forever and I'm worried about her telling people my secrets after she won't care about keeping them any more.

She's told me quite a few embarrassing things about her ex, so why am I going to be any different?

Is it normal to worry about this?

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Based on 68 votes (62 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Why are you with her if you know its going to end anyways?

    Never tell things you don't want other people to know to anyone who tells other peoples secrets.

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  • What kind of secret? You have a small wiener?

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  • Nobody knows what I would consider my "secrets", not even a girlfriend, everything people get from me is trivial malarkey and false drama. It makes me sad.

    I like you, I like you real nice many time.

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  • BloodRedAndTrue

    do you know about her shit?

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  • ccjigsaw

    I dunno, me and my boyfriend have a no telling each others secrets after we break up agreement. I have a bunch of dirt on him, but he has one of darkest secrets to so...If I keep quiet he keeps quiet, yah know?

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  • Just stuff we did/wanted to try. It's pretty damn embarrassing but it was a phase. Still, even if I said it was a phase, I still wanted to do it. Gonna have to face that embarrassment at some point.

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  • Barugel_Azulay

    You should realize that she's much less likely to tell your secrets if you know some of hers she really really wouldn't like others to know. So, if this keeps you up at night, try to have her tell you even dirtier secrets than those she knows about you. The worst possible way to go around this would be to tell her "I want to know your deepest secrets".

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  • Karmasbitch

    Yeah it's normal I'm worried about the same thing!

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  • CatTurd

    I worry the same thing. My boyfriend has told me weird stuff that his ex liked in bed. I just know he's gonna do the same to me when I'm his ex.

    Your girlfriend probably will too but there's not much you can do about it.

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    • I like your nickname.

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      • CatTurd

        My cat's kitty litter was stinking out the room when I was trying to think of a username.

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  • 69

    what kind of secrets?

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  • Unimportant

    Of course. Girls talk.

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  • Hottigene

    The only way I would worry is you have a a real bad Break up and she was Vindictive also if you do have a Bad Breakup kind of let here know that you know things about her Also Lets make a deal.

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