Is it normal weddings scares me!

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I am bryan .Been with an angel named Emily for 8 years, we are dog parents to lots of foster dogs . I couldn’t do better than her and we both know that. She isn't a bridezilla at all. We are dressing up as morticia and Gomez for our wedding and having black and pink roses everywhere.

Emily has told me she couldn’t survive without me but I bet she could. She helped me take care of my argumentative cantankerous mom when she was dying of cancer, help me stay sober when we first met and helped me lose forty pounds.

I am getting married soon and afraid that the whole institution of being married will ruin everything and we will end up Like THOSE PEOPLE from that movie Gone girl. My mom was happily married forever but that had to do with my stepdad being THE NICEST guy EVER.

It's mostly my dad who keeps putting fears in my head. He was the same age as me when he married my mom. He told me my mother was sweet just like Emily before they got married and then she turned into satan in a dress. He has been married and divorced 7 times , because he has no self control and is kind of a insensitive crybaby jerk.

We try to act mature and do the opposite of what our parents did. Do we have a chance in hell of making it? Do aLL COUPLES FEEL THIS WAY SHORTLY BEFORE THE WEDDING? SORRY THIS IS SO LONG .

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    No offense, but your dad is the last person you should listen to or take advice from about marriage.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Relax and try not to over think things. If you truly don't think that you're ready, put the wedding on hold. Some people really aren't suited for marriage. Some are better suited for partnership and that's okay. Marriage is a status. While, it is no doubt special, some people make a bigger deal out of it than necessary. There should be "classes" that exist to help soon to be married couples to help them know what to expected of they do get married. If you can find them, I think it would be a good idea to sign-up to one.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Not all couples feel that way, but many do get nervous.

    Anyway, you'll be fine. Just have the jitters.
    Marriage itself isn't really going to change how you treat each other since it's just a ritual.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    You need to chill out, man.
    Read your first two paragraphs over and over and forget the rest.

    Don't be some stupid jerk who stringed Emily along for 8 years only to tell her you are too scared to marry her.

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  • Cigsznass
    8 years ago

    Play with your butthole over it and see what conclusions you draw!
    ANAL ZONE

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