Is it normal we're always making out?

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Okay, I want to be completely honest on this post, because i really don't know what to think anymore.

I love my boyfriend. He says he always wants to be with me, he doesn't care what we do, or where we go as long as i'm with him. But at the end of our date, we always end up making out. He'll kiss me and we'll turn very passionate.

Thing is, I like making out with him, I like having sex with him. I like the feeling, I like the fact knowing that he's mine and i'm his like that. That we've seen and experienced each other. And all at the same time, it makes me insecure ad scared. Insecure that now that he saw and experienced me completely, he won't have the same interest with me. But mostly scared that sex and making out is the only thing keeping the relationship interesting. I mean, we do other stuffs too, watch movie, go to park/beach be silly with each other, talk, but like I said, at the very end of the day, we'd always make out. And i'm scared that we're leading into that kind of relationship where lust is strongger than love. We don't make out like everyday, cause we only see each other twice or thrice a week. But when we do, we make out.

Idk.. Is this normal in a relationship? Or I should do something before we end up having a relationship that's just based on lust? Help please. He's my first boyfriend and im her first girlfriend, i'm not really expert at relationships. :(

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    You basically described a normal relationship. You "watch movies, go to park/beach be silly with each other, talk". Making out is just a part of it all. At the end of the day, it doesn't erase the rest.

    You make out because it's a way of showing affection and i assume it's something you both enjoy.

    Just because you make out that doesn't mean the making out part means way more than the rest. I wouldn't let it get to your head.

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  • ProseAthlete
    10 years ago

    Your relationship sounds pretty healthy to me. Sex is a vital part of a good relationship for most people (self-described asexual people aside), and it's great that you and he enjoy one another so much.

    If you're worried about it, talk to him about your concerns. You should be comfortable enough with him to tell him that you'd like to spend a week or two just spending time together without falling into bed.

    You also mentioned that you only get to see one another a few times a week, and that's probably part of it, too. When you can only see one another for a few hours a week, it probably feel more urgent to fit everything in, including making out. If you saw one another every day, there wouldn't be that urgency. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the relationship; it just means you don't have all the time in the world to be together right now and end the evening with a simple hug and kiss.

    Congratulations on having a first relationship that sounds really healthy and happy! :)

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