Is it normal wanting to hug and say cheesy stuff?

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Lately I've had this feeling of wanting so, so bad to hug a girl, to be hugged, to say "I love you","I missed you","You're everything for me" and so on. I don't know why. I don't consider myself a very sensible guy or something but I just want to feel that.

Maybe it's because I'm 30 kissless virgin and hugging is so foreign to me but I don't know, sometimes I hug a pillow and pretend is someone.

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  • Grunewald
    4 years ago

    This is really sad. Even I do/say those kinds of things with my best girl friends. No romance needed. It's a good and natural thing to do with people you love.

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  • curiosilla
    4 years ago

    Do not worry about sexual relationships now. All in its time and will it come whenever it has to happen.

    I think it is normal what you are saying. I am from latin America and we use to say "I love you", hugg and be very close to our friends, family and couple. When I do not do it, same think happens to me, I feel the necessity to say that kind of things as well as you.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    Dont worry your first time will be horrible and awkward

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  • Grunewald
    3 years ago

    By the way, I'm 30 and a virgin too!

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  • Iszzy123
    4 years ago

    Ur on your cycle

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  • cupcake_wants
    4 years ago

    Perhaps get a dog in the mean time? Having a dog or a cat can really help if you don't have a significant other to give you the love. Your time will come though. Sooner or later.

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  • DrFeelGoood
    4 years ago

    all humans want affection, while this yearning at your age is a bit out of the ordinary [as there are not that many 30 year old kissless virgins] it is definitely normal for you to want these things <3
    the world is just grateful that you haven't turned to being one of those woman-hating incels. Every dog has his day, sweetheart. You'll get yours soon enough.

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  • rabbitgowhere
    4 years ago

    Sex is meaningless unless you find someone who is connected to your soul.

    Virgins aren't pathetic. But it's sad not to have friends or family or loved ones to fall in love with.

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  • --
    4 years ago

    30 year old an a virgin? Daaaam.
    I started fucking at 17 and didn't get good at it until I was about 29 so if you get to it and start fucking you will be good when you are around 42.

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