Is it normal wanting to be with her

I have to say you're an asshole. Seriously, maybe she just didn't want too or she didn't feel comfortable. Did you ever stop to think that? Probably not because you're a pig.

If you don't respect a women and her boundries then you really are going to be lonely.

If all of your sexual fantasies are fulfilled by SEXTING, then I feel no sympathy for your kind.

You should've told her. Instead of cheating on her.

That is messed up I know how she might have felt cuz I was cheated on numerous times because I wasn't ready to have sex but I finally found a guy who was willing to wait until inwas ready she could be just like me and had a bad experience when she was younger maybe if you had of just stopped and talked to her about why she didn't want to move to the next step instead of cheating on her you could've saved your relationship but now you f*cked that up and probably made her too scared to go out with someone else for a long time I'm sorry to say this but she deserves way better then some loser who would cheat on her just cuz she wasn't ready to move on sorry but that's your loss and I seriously hope she can move on and find someone who is willing to wait like I dif

That's messed up nice job, just because she wasn't comfortable going to the next step, which I dont blame her since you're a pig. You deserve to be without her. Lesson learned I hope.

Bad move, I love my boyfriend and not all girls are about having sex in the beginning or for some time, until they feel good about it. YOU definitely messed up. I do consider that "cheating" and you did hurt her feelings for sure, very badly.

You weren't the one for her, obviously. As her loving boyfriend, you should have respected her boundaries. She cold have loved you with all her heart and still not have wanted to do it. She probably wasn't emotionally ready, or maybe it was against her faith or parents will. She could have wanted to save it for her wedding day. You should have been more understanding. Sexting another woman is irresponsible. You better beg on your knees, in tears if you want her back. You expected her to be naive enough to have never found out, therefore, you can't really love her. I believe all good men are, taken or gay. Your experience proved my point.

Saddo. Enough said.

You should never cheat on someone. You should've spoken wih her about the issue. Now, you have to deal with the consequences. And Oli is right, you should've thought about the way she might've felt. It could've made her uncomfortable.

It already looks like you have lost her. But if you really want her back, give her a sincere apology and tell her the real reason why you did it, and that you really love her. And be serious about it. If it doesn't work. Time heals all wounds... unfortunately, sometimes slowly. But you'll find a new girl, and hopefully you won't do wrong to her like you did to this poor girl, right?

Game over. You lose.

Cheaters suck, but then your girlfriend didn't so...

You cannot cheat on someone who does not care !
Let her marry a good book or watch reality TV and move on to someone breathing.

cheatings a bitch because you just feel more empty then you did before...

how does it feel?

Regrets, they come with mistakes. Point is you messed up but you learned a lesson. Don't go and cheat on the next girl in your life.

A girl who cannot understand your simple, harmless needs isn't worth the trouble. To Hell with her. I'm so bloody sick of the preposterously complex and sensitive sexual psychology that most women seem to possess. I swear it's some kind of brain damage. That's just one of many reasons I don't get involved with them.

Not that I'm condoning infidelity or anything...

Oh yeah, and if she said no to sex merely because she wanted to wait until marriage, then I take it all back, and YOU go to Hell. There is nothing wrong with morality.