Is it normal waiter asked if we were dating?

27% Normal

So I went to a restaurant with my Dad because I hadn't seen him in a while as he lives out of state but I was also there with my Dad's sisters/my aunts and three of my female cousins who are older than me in their 40s. But I was the one sat next to him and the waiter who is probably about late 40s/early 50s asks him if I'm his girlfriend... He's literally like, "is that your girlfriend?" my dad said no she's my daughter and the waiter just said "oh okay". I mean really? Is this normal? I never had this happen to me before.

My dad is 57 years old, I'm 23 and most people think I look 18-20 on average. Soo..what was that about? My dad has brown hair and he does have wrinkles..not loads and loads but a normal amount I suppose. Soo is this normal the waiter assumed I was dating my dad? I mean, dude, I asked my cousins after If I look 50 or something and they just laughed but didn't reply. I'm now thinking I might look 50 even though people all around me mistake me for younger than I am all the time.

Is this normal? The guy didn't seem to be joking as he had a normal face when he asked/after my dad said no.

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27% Normal

Based on 15 votes (4 yes)

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Adelenatalie

9 years ago

Haha. Sometimes waiters will katy ask random things like that....

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

RUDE!!!! He needs to do his job better by not not asking such personal questions!

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Spankz

9 years ago

Maybe he was confused. Perhaps he thought you were a gold digger and your father was rich. It wasn't his place to ask either way, but that could be the reason.

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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

Normal. I have the same problem when I hang out with my brother. The thing is though, he looks like he could be my twin, yet people still mistake him for a boyfriend.

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9 years ago

Share your picture if you don't mind i will answer you

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Shoefish

9 years ago

I have the opposite problem. People think my boyfriend is my dad.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  Well, is he?
  
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  - Shoefish
    
    9 years ago
    
    Ha no. But thanks for checking.
    
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wafflesundays

9 years ago

I went for a pint with my dad to his loacal once never again the bar mad said that my boyfriend was a legend here and was like hes my dad 52years older than me...

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Dazed_dreamer

9 years ago

The dude was making sure you were single

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  He was married lol and talked about his wife to my family :/
  
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  - Dazed_dreamer
    
    9 years ago
    
    I was kidding, I skimmed alot.. the dudes old dont take it seriously :)
    
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

I find your post quite offensive.
I am 68 and my wife is 26. She doesn't look old and is often thought to be my daughter, but I take no offense to that, though it wouldn't take a genius to notice the matching wedding rings.
To think it so awful that a twenty something girl date a 50 something guy is pretty immature and small minded.

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ArayaLioness

9 years ago

Yes. People have different perceptions of age. Or maybe he thought you were 20 and dating a sugar daddy. You can never know.

I was thought to be 30 something once when I was 13.

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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

Yuck!

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