Is it normal unattractive people ask everyone out?

I not being shallow here but generally speaking when you try to get someone to date you are bringing something to the table. Now there are a number of things you can bring to the table, but you have to bring something.

Personality
Wit or humor
Intelligence
money
Looks/style or a nice body
friendship
professional appearance

Yes, I see these fat, smelly, never shave, covered in food all the time, dont bath and an overall mess people go up to chicks they just met and are like "Hey will you be my GF"? and its like you have nothing you are bringing to the table. What do you expect from them? I mean I am no image consultant but you got to at least try to sell it. Now if say you are clean shaving, have a nice style, sharp dresser, brush your hair, and ask "Would you like to get some coffee sometime" its like "Well, sure I could see you are putting in the effort there" but it seems people dont even put in the effort or try to make themselves presentable and its like "Do you really expect a YEAH"? I mean if you are say in shape, and what most people consider cute okay maybe you can sell it on looks alone, but if you are a slob, messy, unattractive you are going to have to sell it with something other then looks right?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Fat greasy food makes a fat greasy dude.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    It's not politically correct to say it anymore but it's true.

    I don't think it's "shallow" at all to look for potential partners who have their shit together and look after themselves. That's an attractive trait, for several reasons, not just for aesthetic beauty.

    I do think there's such thing as being "shallow" when you set your standards stupidly high and expect everyone you date to be a 10/10 model. But it's not a cut-and-dry thing to me, wanting certain healthy traits like good hygeine and being a healthy weight are not shallow.

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    • Well generally I dont care if you are fat. If you are a fat slob though I probably going to be looking down on you.

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  • bigdata

    They've got nothing to lose and also not much self awareness obviously

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  • SiIverline

    I like to offer men a glimpse at my private areas. Once they see how hairy and warty it is they usually go away. I save myself for my father and his friends. That's an old tradition here in my country.

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  • SirChazwick

    This is why you manipulate the other person into doing what you want so you can use them for your needs until you need to move on to someone else.

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  • motherfuckersbrother

    I bring my shit covered cock to the table

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    • This made me laugh, I not sure why.

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  • NotAgain..

    Why are you worrying what dudes go up to chicks? It's not even your business. Focus on your life

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