Is it normal tp not tell my neighbor that i can see her changing

i often sit in my garden at night after work and have a beer and I live next to a couple who I'm good friends with. The thing is, the wife, who works in a bar, comes home and changes in her room after showering.
she angles the blinds but from my spot in the garden, I can watch her changing.
I love watching her, she's got a great body but i also feel like a perv.
Should I somehow let her know or do what my urge says and keep spying on her?

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  • FreezedriedManinaCan

    Staring is not the polite thing to do.

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  • Justmehere

    Enjoy the show. I had a former neighbor who was a hot biker chick. Lived catty-corner to my old townhouse. So damn hot that even women looked at her. She had a habit of disrobing after work and staying that way in the house, thinking the sliding glass doors weren't visible from the outside. Nope. I had so many occasions of watching that fit, blonde, gorgeous woman strip down and walk around her place..Even if she knew, she never said a word. When I moved, I said goodbye to her and that "I'll miss seeing you". Wonder is she ever knew what I really meant?

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  • MR.mr

    serious advice

    I'd say don't tell her but if you do don't admit you've been watching for awhile theres no way that wonm't complicate things.

    again i'd say don't tell her if you feel bad then just stop watching

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  • She probably knows and enjoys giving you a free show every night. My wife was sunbathing naked on a private terrace while on vacation one afternoon and one afternoon unknown to her two workmen came to do some roof repairs to the villa next door. On the roof they got a bird's eye view of my wife, needless to say not a lot of work for done. After about an hour I pretended to my wife that i had just seen them come onto the roof, somehow i think she had already worked that out. At that point she spread her legs wide revealing fully her shaved pussy, shut her eyes and pretended to go back to sleep. She told me later that evening that she had be sexually aroused knowing she was being spied on while naked by the two guys.

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    • MJ42

      She has glanced out in my direction a few times, but my longer is in a dark spot although most times she does strip by the window, so maybe she is showing on purpose?

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  • Keep watching her. Video tape her also for more fun.

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  • LucyLover

    I wouldn't tell anyone. I would rather record it to watch over when she's not changing

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  • ChrissySnow

    I have to admit I do that too and feel that she knows and enjoys giving you, or anyone else, a free show every night. Once I found out about guys and peeping, I've loved the idea of having my own Peeping Toms. In EVERY home and apartment I've lived in since then, I've angled the blinds so that they LOOK closed, but if a peeping Tom comes closer, he'll be able to see in. I cant tell you the number of times I've pretended to not notice guys spying on me. I don't know why, but it is incredibly arousing to imagine or know you are being spied on. If I KNOW or suspect that I'm being spied on, or am just IMAGINING it, I tend to take my clothes off more, sooner and stay naked or under-dressed longer, or worse ;p.

    The WORST thing you can do it tell her! JUST DON'T! Once we are told that they can see us, in our "private times" there is NO WAY we can go back to doing that AT ALL until someone moves. Telling us only humiliates us and gives us no choice but to cover up and change our ways. IT SUCKS! It is also the BEST thing to do, that is, if it is the LAST time you are EVER going to see her again. Just say it nicely. The best way I was told, when a neighbor told me while he was moving out, that he was going to really miss me as I was his favorite show. I didn't get it. Then he explained I really should change my blinds to fold the other way because he could totally see into our place the whole time we were neighbors. I just blushed and gave my best SHOCKED face. I didn't know what else to do. He wasn't finished moving so I better closed all the blinds. Once he was gone I put them all back the way I had them before. I'm still at this place. I just got new neighbors.

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    • UnabashedUser

      Agree don't say a word or let on you can see her. Just consider yourself a lucky dude and carry on. I remember seeing my married neighbor lady peeing in her back garden when I was a teenage lad. It turned me on tremendously and then as I kept on watching in the evenings, I'd see her do it again and again. It became a regular thing at a certain time of the evening. Of course I'd then have to run to my room and take care of business..

      My mother saw her do it and the next day asked her about it over the back fence and what she was doing was she read that human urine keeps the rabbits and deer out of the garden so she'd do it every night.

      Unfortunately knowing that my mother had seen her, she stopped peeing back there.

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  • barrysbigbeanbag

    Carry on!

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  • Ratmanwakes

    Tell her? Dude are you fucking crazy? Just sit back and enjoy the free show! Wack off a big load! Let's be honest here, we all do it. Dude you're living a dream! And you want to fuck it up by telling her? Dude, that's soooo gay!

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    • MJ42

      i didn't say i wanted to tell her but is it the right thing, they are friends?

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  • xoxRose

    well it might be awkward to tell her but how about not staring at her while she's changing

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    • Handyman

      That could be very difficult to do!

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  • Handyman

    I suspect she wants you to see. Light a candle one evening on some excuse and see what happens.

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  • yasss

    Tell her, but just say you saw her accidentally and then looked away. Other wise she'll know that you're the perv you really are.

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    • MJ42

      Thats a bit harsh. I've got a young woman with a great body, standing there stripped off by her window and I'm a perv for looking?'I know its wrong but hell!

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      • yasss

        It's fine to look, but not looking away is what makes you a perv.

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  • MJ42

    she's about 25 yo and attractive so looking away isn't an option.

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