Is it normal too feel like i don't deserve too have a girlfriend because..

Is it normal Too feel like I don't deserve/Or should have a girlfriend because.. I don't work, I feel like because I don't currently have a Job that I don't deserve to look for a gf, Is this normal?? Also Don't believe a girl would stick around with a jobless guy >.<

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69% Normal
Based on 29 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 23 )
  • Trouble66

    Okay so some comments make sense but I have too say I wasn't expecting the judgement.. I'm out of work due too illness.. Not out of choice, I would love to be normal and be able too hold a job down, I've been working towards this, But I'm still not well enough to work yet, I could start but I would last a few weeks maybe before making myself more ill and back out of work, And I didn't say I'd live with the girlfriend either xP

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    • Ellenna

      I don't see why any of that makes you unworthy of being in a relationship. Ignore the judgmental bullshit: focus on getting well and socialising when you feel able

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      • Trouble66

        TY :3

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  • wigz

    I wouldn't date a jobless guy unless he could provide in other ways. Not meaning he has to provide for ME, just meaning some people can live well outside of the norm on their own. If you can't, then...not interested.

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  • Weltanschauung

    Always remember that one puts their own self to way higher standards than someone else. There are a lot of women out there that would date a guy who wasnt currently working. The real question is: are you self-secure enough to not be bothered by not having a job?

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    • Trouble66

      hmmm.. Definetly will think about this, ty x)

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  • Steve_2

    You don't deserve to have a girlfriend because your writing ability is that of a five year old.

    Plebeian.

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    • Trouble66

      Insult me in person ya Keyboard warrior... :)

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      • Steve_2

        Okay. Where do you live? I'll come to your house and insult you in person, then.

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        • Trouble66

          give me yours and I'll come too you :)

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  • Lovecanher

    I would never be with a man that don't have a job

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  • Thorolf

    That depends. Are you willing to clean house for your potential GF when she goes out to get a job?

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  • Arm0se

    A guy can have a job ad still be a shit, but that doesn't sound like you.

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  • mysistersshadow

    I think its more complex than that but yea a guy with out ambition isn't going to be a very attractive find.

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    • Trouble66

      Never said I didn't have ambition

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      • mysistersshadow

        Whatever thats what jobless looks like and since thats the only reason you gave there isn't anything else to go on.

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        • Ellenna

          Jobless doesn't necessarily mean lacking ambition to anyone with any empathy or intelligence

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          • mysistersshadow

            Ok I guess I can add lacking empathy and intelligence to the list of things that are wrong with me.

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    • Ellenna

      OP didn't say he lacked ambition, only that he lacks a job right now: that is two different things

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    • Accelerated-Reader

      how sexist is that though? if a girl stays home all day she's a "home-maker", but if a guy stays home, he has no ambition and is a lazy piece of shit. think about that hypocrisy.

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      • mysistersshadow

        It depends on what the home maker does it could even be a guy but if the home maker isn't cleaning the house doing the dishes making the meals and taking care of the kids if there are any then they are lazy to theres no hypocrisy here.

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