Is it normal to wonder what is expected when in your first relationship?

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Well I am a 19 year old female who still has not had sex. Never had a bf either because to be honest- I'm happy single :D . I am wondering what is expected when in a relationship in the sexual way, I mean I feel that I don't wanna loose my v plates to the first guy I go out with because what if I regret and meet someone nicer or hotter guy later? Do you have to have sex with the first guy u have a relationship with? Also what is expected when dating, do you have sex,kiss e.c.t?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You don't sound like 19. More like 12.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      What makes u say that? and yeah I do have an attitude like a younger person so thanks :D

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    I would say a kiss is expected to every single guy you meet. first date. first night.
    And probably the guy is going to be expecting sex too. I had sex with the second guy I was with. And I don't think you have to worry about meeting somebody nicer. I swear losing your virginity is so overrated, and look at it like.. practice for the nicer guy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thanks for your comment and good idea- I think I will just do it one day I am ready since no one waits anymore.

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      • yesnomaybeso
        10 years ago

        Maybe you're not ready though. Like, I didn't feel ready until I met the right guy. But he probably wasn't the best guy. But that way I'm going to be better at sex when I meet him? :p
        Don't feel nervous :p it's going to be okay ^^

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          But if I am not ready now I will never be since sex is a big thing for me, therefore I will never be ready unless I make myself, if that makes any sense lol :P Thanks for your comment though, it does make sense :)

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          • yesnomaybeso
            10 years ago

            it kinda feels like you're pushing yourself though; but i do understand you. i also thought i would never be ready and i'd stay a virgin forever :p

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Just go with the flow and say no to anything you don't want to do.

    If the guy breaks up with you because of this then they weren't right for you anyway. No one but you can say when you are ready don't let the pressure of when those slut bags you called friends lost their virginity.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Good point! This is one of the most helpful comments I have noticed you post and I am thankful :)

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    Can't say what's expected, but I don't really think holding out till the right guy comes along is such a good idea. I mean I get the concern, but no one is perfect. You should do it when you feel ready and comfortable with the person you're with. Don't think of this relationship as practice so you can get a hotter, better guy. Just be who you are and do whatever makes you comfortable.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      hmm true thanks for your comment :)

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