Is it normal to wonder this and be honest do you genuinely care for your...

Do you genuinely care for your friends or have one special one in particular? Meaning do have feelings of fondness or anything close to that since I rekon most people use their friends or don't really care about them. Please be honest, this is an anonymous vote thanks :)

yes I care for all my friends 34
I care for some of my friends 27
I care about one deeply 3
I just care for one 2
I don't care about them, I just use them 1
I use some of them but do care for some 10
me, I am a user 2
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  • dom180

    As I see it, you care about your friends by definition. If I was going to use someone (although I don't know why I would use someone) I wouldn't count them as a friend; I'd put them in a different category entirely. A friend to me has to be someone I genuinely care about, or else they're not a friend :P

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    • What do you mean exactly, what category would you put them in? I know people do use friends as I have seen it many times! I'm am glad that you genuinely care for your friends as many people don't.

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      • dom180

        If I was using some, that would mean I had contempt for them. I wouldn't call someone a friend if I had contempt for them.

        I guess I'd just call them people. Possibly acquaintances. For me "friend" is a term of endearment, and I wouldn't throw it around lightly.

        Perhaps one person might see their situation as true "friendship", but the other person might not consider that person a friend.

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  • Dib

    I used to care. However, I've noticed that they couldn't give two shits for me. Hell, most of them used me. I was stupid to think anyone would love me unconditionally. So now, I couldn't careless about them. They are just people to fill the friendship gap of my life. I wish I could defriend the toxic bastards, but I fear that I wouldn't be able to make new ones.

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  • thegypsysailor

    A friend is someone who will be there for you even if it's inconvenient.
    I have many, many acquaintances but few friends. I think you just haven't made a friend yet, if you are asking these sorts of questions. You have lots of acquaintances, though.

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  • Anime7

    The close friends that I've made I generally care a lot for. If they need comfort I'm there, if they need a good time, I'm there. Just in general I will be there for my friends and I know that I can expect the same from them. I count only 4 people as my close friends and those are the people that I can count on and likewise they can count on me.

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  • Maya05

    If I don't 'care' for someone then I don't consider them a friend. Also I don't 'use' my friends for anything except to social needs (which is kind of the point of friends in the first place)

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  • Store210

    I only have three friends and they are as if not even more importaint to me than family

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  • bananaface

    My friends mean the world to me. So, yes, I do care about them. I agree with dom180; I also feel by definition, friends are people who you care about. If I didn't care about them, they wouldn't be my friends.

    I also agree with Short4Words. Some people might perceive acts of friendship as "using" someone. I mean, you do use them in a sense (for laughter, for emotional support, etc.) You also give it back, though. I suppose it's the motive behind it, really. Some people pretend to be friends with others with the motive of getting something from them (or using them). In a friendship, you're naturally going to do things for each other, but it's because you care about each other.

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    • yes but you know that people don't take words so seriously unlike you who knows the definition of a friend. I have known many people to call someone their 'friend' when as a matter of fact they use them to suit their needs and do not care about their well-being at all.

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  • Short4Words

    I think it's possible to do both. My friends in someway or another feel a personal need of mine I guess, and I think it's the same way for everyone else, but I'm also very attached to them and deeply invested in their well being.

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    • hmm I see, thanks for your comment !

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  • handsignals

    Friend's! Yeah I love my friends were always laughing and joking and having a good time...I have got loads of friends...were so close I never feel alone...I'm never bored...depressed...I never sit alone and stare into space as night turns to day and day turns to night...*put's barrel in mouth, pulls trigger*

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  • RoseIsabella

    I care for all my friends, even the one's with whom I've lost touch. If I don't care for someone I might tolerate him or her for a while but eventually I start to distance myself from the person and finally detach from said person completely. I choose to not use people because I don't enjoy being used by others. It's better to be alone than to be with the wrong people just to fill the void!

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  • Unimportant

    I don't have any friends. Where is my option?

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  • Ofcourse I do, but I forget.

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  • Karmasbitch

    I have used people in the past just in the sense that I wanted someone [anyone] to hang out with.
    Nowadays, I only have two close genuine friends.

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  • SangoNyappy

    If I don't care about a person I don't consider them friends.

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  • StarTeddy

    I care too much about my friends. I have a hard time distinguishing love from friendship, which makes me feel awkward and I just end up distancing myself from them...In the end I only really have one or two very important people in my life (like a boyfriend) and a few friends/acquaintances that I only talk to occasionally.

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  • gummy_jr

    What about "I care for MOST of my friends"

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