Is it normal to wonder if people actually like you for you and not your humor?

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So I have many good traits I am- kind, caring, nice, honest, reliable and many others but my best trait is my sense of humour, I love making people laugh and I seem to easily do without even having to say much. I do wonder though, if people/friends actually only like me because I'm a clown and someone to laugh at or with...I feel that without my stupidity and amusing demeanor I wouldn't have many people want to spend time with me. is it normal to feel/think this and is it true? Does anyone else feel this way?

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    But your humor is a part of you.

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    • Terence_the_viking
      10 years ago

      Exactly what i was gonna say.

      Once again you beat me.

      Hats off to you sir.

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      • anti-hero
        10 years ago

        Are you me? Am I you? Are we... we?

        haha I just said WeeWee.

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        • Terence_the_viking
          10 years ago

          Doodies.

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        • those3simplewords
          10 years ago

          oui oui , i did a wee weee

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    I feel that way sometimes. I think they would like you anyway, even without your humor :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      thanks and I hope so...

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  • agoodlovejoy
    7 years ago

    Jim Carey is experiencing this. I find humor in everything. When life got harder i found humor in those stories too but my friends saw it as a cry for help and dont find me fun anymore. They started to try to use me. I fell for it because i cared for them ....never got any thanks or pay offs. But its cool. I think it was Gods way in moving me to higher ground

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago

    If someone likes you because you are funny they LIKE YOU.

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