Is it normal to wonder how to look at person with a lazy eye when speaking?

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Is it normal to be confused about how to look at someone you are talking to if they have a lazy eye? I have spoke with a few people in my life that have a lazy eye or a crooked eye. It always makes me uncomfortable talking to them because I like to make eye contact when I talk with someone. I'm not sure how to look at them. Do I look at their "good" eye or their "bad" eye? Or do I avoid eye contact all together. The last thing I want is to make them embarrassed or hurt their feelings, so I end up so confused. is it normal to be confused on how to make eye contact with a person that has a lazy eye or other noticeable eye problem?

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Does anyone know the correct etiquette for this?

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    The proper etiquette for talking to a lazy eye person is to look at the top point of their nose.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thanks. It really was an honest question. Your suggestion was very helpful. It really looks like I am looking them straight in the eyes without the feeling that I'm making them feel awkward.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    Sorry. You must have a lazy eye. It's okay....I now know how to look at you without making you uncomfortable.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Look at their nose.

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  • DannyKanes
    9 years ago

    Just look at them normally like you would anyone else.

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