Is it normal to wonder how can i make him love me

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how can i make my boyfriend hate his ex- and love me, how can i make him forget her and leave her and be with me ,
he always do for her what she told him to do and when i told him to do the same for me he always say no why is that?
when she text a message for him he always reply but for me he never reply i always begged him please send me a message and his answer no , when she call him and be sad he always stay with her on the phone and consoling her but when i talk to him and cry he always say to me i will talk to you later or im busy or he sometimes makes me cry more,
i love him i want him to be with me but how can i make him leave her? Are these feelings normal?

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Based on 34 votes (21 yes)
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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    I hate to say it but someone has too:

    He's still in love with his ex.
    You're a rebound.
    Dump and find someone better :-)
    Someone who deserves you :-)

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      i cant love another person he is my first and my last , many guys came to me and told me how much they loves me but always my answer is no, his friends always say to him we hope that we are in your place she's beautifull and amazing and whatever you want in any girl you will find it on her , but hes not care to what they say ..

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    You can't make him leave her. However, you can use this experience to get better at dealing with the grim reality that we can't always get what we want.

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      i know but i always say that he will be mine and he will leave her i hope that what i want came true :(

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Normal to have these feelings but you should open your eyes to reality and realize that you deserve better. You can't make someone love you but you can allow someone to use you.

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      but i love him so much and im with him for 2 years , im always with him and beside him, at first he was in love with me but after he dump me and back to her and when he saw me dont care about him he come back to me and told me i cant stay away i want you :( so what i have to do ?

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