Is it normal to wish i didnt have a gender

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I thinking of getting surgery to hide any hint of my gender. Just for the fact I dont like people figuring it out and then immediately saying "Oh, they are the sex I like, we should totally fuck". To which I just wish someone would be kind enough to just talk to you and say "Hello! Want to be friends" but sadly real life will never work that way, and Its really stressful trying to deal with sexual tension when I just want to be left alone.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    This might sound weird, but it sounds like you get hit on a lot, and have grown weary of presumptuous people who are basically harassing you.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    It is human nature to identify other humans based on physical perceptions. When we can't figure out if a person is happy or angry, non-threatening or dangerous, male or female, we get disturbed at a primal level.

    You will not have people walking up to you wanting to be your friend. I suggest you learn to accept that attraction is real and something we don't have control over. You are projecting your insecurity with sex onto others.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      No, them hitting on me is not me projecting. That like saying a rape victim asked to be raped. Them existing does not mean they deserve it.

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        Not a good analogy, because rape is an a crime and catcalling is just uncomfortable. Don't equate 'getting hit on' to getting raped. You only insult actual victims.

        Your solution you hint at is appearance-based. That's a good approach, but there's no need for genderbending surgeries. Wear less tight and less appealing clothes. If you don't want to, then you don't really want change.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    I wouldn't get surgery thats a big step why not ignore ppl that are like that?

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    • Fugazi,again
      7 years ago

      Shouldn't you be on the boat with your wife 42 years your junior?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Since it happens every fucking time! I had my boss try to have sex with me too.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Sounds like you've been experiencing life and life is what you make of it. Alot of shitty things can happen but so do many good ones. Surgery is such a big step and it won't really fix your life. Only you can do that.

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  • dirtybirdy
    7 years ago

    Hello! It's me! I'm wondering...

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  • Fugazi,again
    7 years ago

    If I saw a genderless human walking down the street I would find it quite freaky and definitely wouldn't say hello to it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Id prefer that.

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      • Fugazi,again
        7 years ago

        Maybe u could get a tattoo on your face saying fuck off

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        • ShereKhan
          7 years ago

          lol

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