Is it normal to want to say this to gay people who thinks everyone is a homo?
Now I mean only the gay people who think every men have homosexual tendencies like a famous gay man said, not every gay people out there. I want to tell them that like if we say that every gay people have hetero sexual tendencies in heart, they will deny it saying it comes from a straight man's perspective. Similarly I want to say to them that it comes only from their perspective, like we cannot understand their attraction to other men they cannot understand our attraction to women and the reasons we dont find men sexually attractive. I have seen comments on different news articles where gays claim that male friends who hug each other do it because they secretly enjoys it sexually. I want to say that yes I hug my male friends but not in the least because I enjoy it sexually, but because its called showing friendship. People who pat their pets, do they do it because they are Zoophiles? No! They do not understand our perspective, so they should not judge us by their own perspective. Life is not about sex.
Now suppose a man who hugs straight men refuses to hug a man he knows is gay. He is called a homophobe. But if a woman refuses to hug a straight man because she thinks he might want to hug her to enjoy her sexually, its okay. If a gay man kisses a man against his will he usually gets away with it easy. But if a straight man kisses a woman against her will he is accused as a sex offender and gets months of jail terms. I read a news that a man was raped by a bunch of gay men in a London train, but they were charged with simple burglary as there is no law against homosexual rape there. Is this fare? For heterosexuality carried out against someone's will we have punishments. But if we accept homosexuality as equal to it, we dont have equal punishment when its carried out against someones will?
In conclusion I believe a gay man (not all only those who do) should not judge straights from their own perspective, and homosexual offences should be as equally punishable as heterosexual offences.