Is it normal to want to murder your sister?

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I am jealous of my 16 Y/O sister. There! I said it! She's got many boys who like her, she gets chocolate from guys on a weelky basis, she's got tons of friends, her social life is great, she looks great in pictures, she's a ballerina with a great body,she's really pretty, period. Whereas I, the older sister, who's 20 Y/O am an introverted, styless, talentless, pessimstic ugly-duckling. Those facts are true and I can't blame her for it. The problem is that she is such a witch! She rubs her perfection on my face, insults me whenever she gets the chance, makes sarcastic comments about what I wear and she makes me feel like just by standing next to her, I lessen her popularity. I was fine with her being an extrovert but whenever I put myself out there and interact with family members, she would always tell me how plastic I am and how I move, walk and talk is insincere. Therefore, I have various fantasies wherein I'd maliciously end her life. Gore and sister bits strewn across the room kind if fantasies. Sometimes, it tires me out alot just keeping myself from making these fantasies come true. I can feel myself snapping at times and I am afraid of lashing out. Help!

Yep, it is normal.	5
No, it's not. You need a shrink	14
You're just inferior. She is clearly the better sister.	4
It'll get better. Your sister's a plank.	16
Hurt her psychologically.	11

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Yudset8

7 years ago

Well I'm also like you. I'm introvert, my sister is extrovert. She can also be very annoying, acting cute and all that. You are the one who is living with her. I'm sure she has weaknesses. Use it physiologically, not physically. But, don't threaten her. Remember, there's a legal issue if you hurt her physically. Just belittled her when she said something.It will be the major pain in her ass for her. If she say you're like plastic, just say "wooow congrats, YOU should win a nobel prize for creating a plastic human model!! But wait, where's the nobel?"

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks for the advice and for the sass! Much appreciated! Atleast somebody thinks that it's okay to get revenge.
  
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FORUMidableFucker

7 years ago

Your sister is 16 for one. Guys are after her to use her for the most part so I wouldn't calling it guys "liking" "her". Two her social life is probably her kissing ass and getting her ass kissed back aka most peoples "realities" she is not accepted as a real person or at all.She has lots of friends sure but are they good friends. She is a ballerina for god sake and they but her chocolate. LOL how can you be jealous of something so petty.Ballerina=waste of time+cringe and chocolate takes two seconds and cents to buy and is not thoughtful or healthy.Also if she is sixteen she can't have a great body as it is probably not even fully developed. Also if she was really pretty she wouldn't be "good" at wearing make up all the time.You are acting plastic and she is right, she knows that she ain't shit and she is teasing you about it. Tell her you don't need vain children bullshitting you with petty drama and break her soul. But you won't kill her, I can tell by how you type and who you are and even if you did she never physically hurt you so you would be at fault and would rot. Just fight fire with fire.You are much older and can make you life good for real.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks for saying it like it is. That felt like a slap, and it's just what I needed. I forgot how most teen guys and girls are. Thanks also for telling me that I'm not capable of hurting her despite the fact that I'm a complete stranger. I'm always scared of what I'm capable of when I'm pushed to the brink and a stranger's assurance can get me by. Thanks for being cool.
  
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fifilapoo

7 years ago

Ignore what is going on in your sisters life and improve your own. You will get nowhere in life by hurting your sister. Why not be kind to her and ask her for tips on style and make-up, you never know you might enjoy it and feel better. She might even share her chocolates!
Jealousy is so negative that you will become truly ugly. I bet you are more attractive than you think you are. But with thoughts like the ones you are having it is no wonder that you feel ugly.
Many sisters do not get on. You are old enough to have grown out of that by now!!!!
I hope this helps and good luck.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks! I know I should have grown it out by now but lately I've been feeling like everything is getting to me easily. Thanks for the advice though. It means alot
  
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ben_dover

7 years ago

Why dont you and your sister get naked together and start hugging each other and kissing and you both work your lips down to each other's tits and start sucking each other's tits while your fingers wander down to each other's bald cunts and you both stick your fingers inside the other one's cunt and you both spread your legs open and you both stick your fingers in each other's asshole and put each other's cum , pee , poop on each other's nipples and breasts and you both lick it all off of the other's tits.
Then you both wear 12 inch strap - on's and one gets on her knees and the other one gets behind her and you slide the strap - on all the way inside each other's bald twat and poop chute and then you both suck the strap - on that has the other one's cum , pee , shit on them.
Sit on each other's face and tongue fuck each other's bald cunt and deep rim each other's booty hole until you both cum , pee , fart , shit on each other's face and chest and clean each other up.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  You are sexually frustrated and you take it out on strangers over the net. However, I will play along with you since I was taught not to abandon people in need. First: I will not do such things with my sister. Second: I am naive and uptight therefore, I will only unleash the closet bitch that I am with my future husband (if I get one). Third: Have you tried to find an outlet for your sexual frustation, other than slinging sexual comments unto strangers? Fourth: If you have the inability to get laid, might I suggest a sport or a hobby to take your mind off of sex. Fifth: Nobody likes sexual predators. That's it. Have a nice day.
  
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  - ben_dover
    
    7 years ago
    
    You are the one with the inability to get laid.
    You said so yourself by saying that you dont know how to fuck and you " Never been kissed, intimately touched or petted. Don't know how to flirt, let alone deal with the opposite sex either ".
    How naive is a 20 year old female who doesnt know how to fuck , never been kissed , never been touched or petted , dont know how to flirt , never seen a male erect 6 inch cock and balls.
    All females learn how to do all those things by the time they are 12 or 13 years old at the latest.
    Some females , even sooner
    Didnt you learn how to fuck when you took health class at 14 years old in the 8 th grade ?
    Health class shows illustrations , diagrams , photos , mannequins of the male erect cocks and nuts.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Does it count that our culture looks down upon pre-marital sex? Sex-ed was also not imposed when I was studying in HS. I'm not from your country and the place I come from is very conservative with that stuff. Even at 20, I can't openly joke about sex and not come out as a slut. I have seen diagrams and even watched porn but it feels like it's very far from the real thing. It's kinda like saying you know how to operate a plane after reading a few chapters of its operating manual. You don't say you know how to do stuff without having done it in the first place. It's not like guys haven't tried to pull anything nasty on me. Makes me shiver when I recall such scenarios. Brrrrrr! Anyway, I sincerely thank you for making me remember why I have not chosen to explore the fuck-filled side of the world and for reminding me the things that I had gone through to shake a guy off my track. Haha. Seriously, thanks for being perverse. Now I'm don't feel inferior at all to my sis. You're not that bad sir ben_dover.
      
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      - ben_dover
        
        7 years ago
        
        There is no instruction manual to teach you how to fuck.
        Ask your girlfriends or sister or brother or Mom or Dad and they can teach you and show you.
        Let your brother or Dad fuck your bald cunt , ass and mouth and you will learn quick.
        20 years old and never been kissed or fucked or sucked a cock or been touched or petted is strange.
        You must be an ugly duckling.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago
        
        You're not gonna let me have the last word are you? That's cute. Here's a smile for your replies. :D
        
        I sincerely hope that you have a nice day
        
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FORUMidableFucker

7 years ago

@AnonymousPollCreator I never said you couldn't hurt her I just said you can't kill her; if you seriously could you already would have. Also you are not really a stranger you just wrote a story on your life and your personality.

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dytrog

7 years ago

Find out who her favorite boyfriends are and fuck them.
She will find out. esp. if you are a better fuck than her.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I don't know how to fuck? Never been kissed, intimately touched or petted. Don't know how to flirt, let alone deal with the opposite sex either. When they flirt with me I don't know what to do. That is a problem in itself. Ugh! Where can I get some boldness around here?
  
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  - ben_dover
    
    7 years ago
    
    What is there to know ?
    Its on the job training.
    
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  - BENDOVR
    
    7 years ago
    
    I will teach you , its easy.
    
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AbnormallyAwesome

7 years ago

I think you need help. You seem very sad and possibly depressed. You're sister is 16. Almost everyone's an idiot at that age. It sounds to me like you're jelous of her life, but clearly you are very different. You need a different life. YOUR life. With friends that like you the way you are.
It sounds like you're deeply sad but it comes out as anger.
Have you tried just talking to her and tell her how much her comments hurt you? Because if she only sees your hate she will only hate you back. Maybe if she sees your desperation she'll remember that she loves you.

And hey, if that doesen't work you can still kill each other.
(No, serioussly, don't do that. Way to close of a connection - They'd catch you)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  You are right. I have depression. Boooo! Sucks! I thought that being an adult would rock but it's like being AN ADULT. I don't also show her my weakness. I try to make it look like I'm this emotionless and non-caring bitch because if she finds out that I have a crack in this exterior, she'll just want to step on me even more. Thanks for the advice and for giving me an analysis of myself from your point of view.
  
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  - AbnormallyAwesome
    
    7 years ago
    
    Hey, maybe I'm naive, but don't you think if you showed her your emotional side you could come closer? If you say yourself that you pretend to be an emotionless bitch, why would she ever like that person? Would you? I'm sure there's much about you that is lovable, but people need to see it.
    And she's still your sister. Didn't you guys love each other at some point?
    
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Max2016

7 years ago

If you're fixated on your sister, you are going to ruin your own happiness. Focus on things you like, talents that you can develop. Try and get good at it. If you're good in studies, go to a university and study what you love.

Once you hone your skills and accumulate knowledge and become really good at something, it will be easy for you to have a great career, money and success. You will get lots of men then because men, not boys, but men like strong, successful women, not unstable beauty queens.

Your sister is too full of herself. If she doesn't change her ways, after high school she will have a really hard time. From what you've described, on the inside she sounds too insecure. Life isn't going to be very good to her as an adult; unless she decides to mend her ways, she will have to sell her body to get by. Things might not look good for you now, but both you and your sister are too young. Adult life is going to be completely different. Your life will be far better than hers and you will have the last laugh. Just keep focusing on improving yourself and developing skills and talents. You will eventually have the upper hand.

PS: I voted it's normal because it's normal to have those urges to hurt her. But it's not normal to go through with it.

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happywheels

7 years ago

Kill her

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