Is it normal to want to lose your virginity but feel like nobody is worth it?

You say you want to just get rid of your virginity and yet are so picky about the guys.. Why does being a virgin make you insecure about your body anyways. You don't know how many good guys out there would be happy to know you are a virgin and would like to lose their own with yours.

You lose your virginity for yourself...not for someone else.

Wow! This sounds like me. I really feel like nobody is really good enough. The people who tell me they want to do it with me, I don't want to do it with them because they're usually not the guys that I want at that moment. Then the guys who I want, with time they usually give me reason not to want them anymore because I usually spend so much time chasing them, and just throw my hands up, b/c I'm sick of chasing after these fucking crushes. So here I am, always holding back, wondering why I'm never satisfied. Where all the descent guys are, and why they seem to not like me. But at the same time I have this nagging thought in my mind thats saying I should get it over with so I know how it feels before I die, but I really don't wanna rush it, because I don't wanna regret it. And honestly, I'm kinda insecure about myself too. I'm still waiting though because I still kinda have a little hope that theres gotta be someone descent out there. I mean, I get my doubts a lot, but I'm kinda scared to just give it away like that.

20 years old isn't very old. You should just wait.

are you kidding ? I lost mine at 22, and I'm still with the guy. One year, great relationship. And you know what? Fuck that I was a virgin. I don't care. I drive him insane.

i was one of those girls where nobody was good enough. And now look what happened to me! I've never regretted a single thing i did in my life. Not a single thing.

society is pressuring you to do this because of the tv shows you watch, magazines, your friends.. but the truth is society always only aims to objectify women no matter where you go. My advice is only look out for yourself, and nobody else. make sure a man is fulfilling all of your needs and giving you what you deserve (because you sound like a great girl) before doing this.

I just believe women put themselves in situations where men take advantage of them and THEY are the ones who are screwed up because of it -- not the guy. Men always come out on top -- unless they fall in love! REMEMBER THIS.

ive been there before, not fun! But 20 is not old! You are not a 40 year old virgin lol.. let me tell you something from experience, PLEASE listen losing your virginity is not something you should want to "get over with" it is good that you are waiting for someone who ISNT a fuckhead, because i didnt, and it SUCKEDDDDDD, nothing makes a girl feel more terrible then having sex with someone who couldnt give a shit about them ... keep doing what you are doing, the right one will come around i swear

I can never understand what the big thing about being a "virgin" is about. I think it is not normal to dislike yourself for the one thing that you are. God has cursed you with this problem and you have to find the "right one" to cure you and then go on to a "normal" life of getting laid every once in a while by guys who still wouldn't measure up. Change what you can about your body. Except what you can't. You are ONLY 20. There are plenty others of both sexes with you concern. Don't let it run you thinking. Take care.

Nice guys finish, that's why I'll start treating you like trash

Been in that boat. My advice is that you start a relationship. Guys that ask me out tend to be duds. Guys I pick out tend to be awesome.

Decent men are normally very shy. And most men, till they turn 25, are 15 at heart.

Virginity isn't something to lose. It is something to give your spouse on your wedding night. No "boyfriend" is worth it. The only person who is worth it is the guy who devotes himself to you for life.

Honestly all girls are like this and you all are because you are all looking for love in the wrong places so instead of dating the Dick head who is always the center of attention date the lesser known person, all girls complain that their bfs are assholes so why date them?

Ain't that a kettle of fish?
Giving your virginity to an asshole would indeed suck, but saving it for Mr. "right" is wasting a whole lot of time you could be enjoying love making.
My suggestion, though it might sound a tad self serving, as I am older, (but I'm in the Caribbean, for from your reach), is to find an older, mature man for your first experience. He'll be more passionate, gentler, experienced and much more concerned with your pleasure than adding another "notch to his gun handle".
From what women have told me, the young, "pretty boys" are terrible in bed; selfish and crude, as they rest on their looks and not abilities to keep women happy.

Listen to focoUS. She knows what she's talking about. I'm a guy by the way.

It doesn't matter when you lose your virginity. When it happens, it happens. I suggest you wait until you find the right guy.

Dude the first ride is always free.

it's just a experiance you don't lose nothing, You can pay me, If your really disgusting :)

dont think its a big deal, just give it away sunshine.

just fuck your dad... seems like a safe bet to me

Loser.

im pretty sure about 99.99999999999999999% that you gonna find a pretty shity guy and loose your viginity