Is it normal to want to lay naked with another man, when i already have a so?

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I love my boyfriend without a doubt in my brain or my heart, he's the only one I can see myself with for the rest of my life.

The thing is there's this other man, a friend of mine who goes to the same University as me. We have a lot in common and I feel emotionally connected to him. Even though I'm not romantically/sexually interested in him, I would really like to just strip down and lay naked with him for awhile, just feel that skin to skin contact and have one of our usual wonderful conversations.

I've tried this with my boyfriend, but I just didn't feel as satisfied as I think I would if I was able to do it with this other man.

Is this normal? And should I tell my boyfriend?

It's normal, but you should tell your boyfriend. 9
It's not normal, but you should tell your boyfriend. 22
It's normal, but you shouldn't tell your boyfriend. 23
It's not normal, but you shouldn't tell your boyfriend. 15
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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    So no, if you respect and love your boyfriend you won't lay naked with another guy. Yeah I think this is one of those things you should tell your boyfriend.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I have absolutely no intentions of actually doing this. I'm not a "cheater". It's just a fantasy.

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    This is just a fantasy, don't tell your boyfriend about it, he would probably think that you have had an affair with this guy. There's nothing wrong in fantasizing. Just don't go further if you like what you are living with your boyfriend right now.

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  • poon__jabber
    9 years ago

    if you tell your bf you can never take that back and it could wedge you apart.

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  • 1badassog&AA
    9 years ago

    Maybe there is part of you that can see that your boyfriend isn't enough to fill the whole bill! What would you say if your bf said he knows he wants you for life but want to lay naked skin to skin with a girl he has a lot in common with at his school? If I were your bf and you said this to me I would go tell your friend that you should do it! I would hope that you both enjoyed & experienced what you needed. I would hope that you would also do the same for me. The woman that wants me to have EVERYTHING I want & need I will stay with for life. The worse that could happen is she would fall head over heals for her friend and no longer wish to be with me. If that were to happen I would be happy for both of them REALLY! I will find that special someone for me too. If they deside to get married I would dance at there wedding and we can all be friends if they wish. If I wouldn't do that for her I didn't really care about her did I?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I understand what you're saying here - but I think the point that nobody is really picking up is that I wouldn't actually DO it. It's just a fantasy.

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      • 1badassog&AA
        9 years ago

        I think that fantasy are hidden desires! Why do we think it's wrong to have desires? Would we be better off if we could safely indulge those things we desire? In my opinion the answer is yes! I would want my significant other to have all they desire! I would hope that they would also want the same for me and if not why not? You SEE

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    Desi Brable, is that you?

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  • TheWeasel
    9 years ago

    Nohing wrong..just turbo poon ripped

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