Is it normal to want to just give up my first time and get it over with?

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I'm as much of a virgin as one can be and 18 years old. No sex. No touching. No first kiss. I've turned down really great guys because they look like they would definately be "experienced" and that intimidates me. I'm tired of this fear. I hate that I'm this age and nothing has happened for me yet. Most my age are more experienced and it scares me that it would be my first time and his whatever number. I've been thinking of basically just giving it 'all' up with this good friend of mine. It wouldn't necessarily mean anything. We've mentioned it before, but I said no at first. That was about a year ago and now I just want to get it over with. Of course I'm nervous, but at the same time I'm a bit excited to finally have my first time. What do you think?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    From a girls point of view, you are overthinking this. Sex is not that important and you are still young. Why not wait until you meet a fantastic guy who you love and trust, and share a special moment with him?

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Do it with your friend if you want to, but i want girls to have less experience than me, so i dont think your situation is bad. Its not like you were a guy lol

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  • aduusw
    13 years ago

    Don't be scared... It's just sex

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