Is it normal to..want to have sex w/a former friend for revenge?

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Been thinking about a former female friend and work partner the last few weeks. We had a falling out for many reasons, none of which I apologize for. Thing is, we always had a great friendship and sexual attraction, and now..I want her. Not for friendship again or wasting as much time with her as I used to, but..Just to have a boatload of sex with and not deal with again.

Is it bad or wrong that all I want is to fuck the hell out of her, treat her like the slut she actually is and not the sweet person she makes herself out to be, for basically revenge? And then toss her aside and not deal with her again?

This is something I've been thinking about, for real, lately..I don't miss her, but, do think we have unfinished sexual business. Just feel very strong that I don't want anything else from her but to use her for sex, as we've always needed to anyway, and be done.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    What was the fall out?

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    • Justmehere
      6 years ago

      Long story, but basically, she became the type of person who'd slam anyone and do anything for her own benefit. Very hypocritical and untrustworthy. I got into a small thing with a business group person (who I was no fan of to begin with), totally unrelated to her, and the person mentioned things about my business that only my former friend would know, as she worked many jobs with me. That warned me..She (the now-former friend) kills everyone when we're alone, then calls the same people her besties..What's to say she's not slamming me, too?

      We were very close together, and, there was sexual tension. Even the people we told that we weren't together or having sex, people we knew well, didn't believe it. Hell, she came to a few family functions with me, and my own, very intelligent and trusting sister, told me "There's no way you're not with her..You two are too close to just be coworkers".

      The sex has to happen, to satisfy my and our physical relationship, or what we did have. As stated, I don't want to get tied up with her again, day to day..Just have the boatload of intense, it's about time sex with her that we're way overdue for. That will be my revenge.

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      • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
        6 years ago

        Eat her alive

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        • Justmehere
          6 years ago

          Plan to..Since I also know, from our extensive time together and close, couple-like relationship, what she likes in bed (or the shower, kitchen, hot tub, etc), I'll use all of that information to, as she put it once after being with a guy "fucked me so hard it was like I was in a trance or something". I want to do that to her.

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          • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
            6 years ago

            😂😂😂

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  • Blackstarxd
    6 years ago

    I suggest you communicate with her and tell her straight up what your real true Intensions are with her instead of leading her on for nothing. Be as straight forward as you can and let her decide if she's okay with having you in her life for just sex. it wouldn't kill you if you apologize to her and meant it so you two can build that friendship ya once had. Why do you want to get revenge?

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    • Justmehere
      6 years ago

      There's nothing to apologize for..She's just the type of woman who will throw anyone under the bus for her own benefit. I heard her views and slamming of so many people, to me, in my car, then, boom..She was besties with half of them. All for personal, selfish gain. I just didn't want to be next, so I exited the entire thing.

      As for the sex, yes..I still really want to just have at her. We always had an overlying sexual tension, flirted a lot, and were good together..I just want no part of the time wasting or getting tied up in her drama. I want us to have the wild sex we're due for, and that's it. No emotion involved. Strictly physical, she and I, doing what half the people we know always thought we were doing anyway..

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      • Blackstarxd
        6 years ago

        I see what you are saying, so yeah just communicate with her and tell her you want just sex from her and let her decide if she's interested in you for just sex, that way there will be no misunderstanding of y'all relationship. If she agrees then do it after all y'all have great sexual tension. But why do you want to get revenge?

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