Is it normal to want to have gay sex with one of my straight friends?

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He knows I'm gay and everything, and I've got the feeling he might want to experiment, but I'm not sure. I'm thinking it might be easier to get him drunk before hand to really see if he's willing. But I don't know, what should I do?
Additional notes: he's a virgin and I'm not, so would it be bad if we eventually do do so something and he loses his virginity to a guy?

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    i agree with the above posters doing it to him while drunk is the worst thing you can do. One of my friends went to jail for having sex with a drunk girl while sober. Have you talked to him about it? I would ask him about it and how he fels about the idea. If he says yes go ahead, but with caution he will probalby be real nervous cause hes a virgin, and possibly more so cause its with a man. Be careful, and best wishes!

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  • johnny141
    12 years ago

    I think its probably ok to question him about experimenting or whether he is attracted to you while he is drunk.

    But I really would save trying any physical contact until you are both sober. If he is drunk when it happens (esp. if you are not) it is both assault and certainly not something a real friend would do.

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  • SATC
    12 years ago

    If he is 'straight' then I would say if you want ot be a good friend then maybe taking his virginity from him when drunk isn't the best thing to do.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    But if he does it drunk and is then horrified when he sobers up, you may lose a friend as he can't face you any more. Surely it's better you both go into it with your eyes open.

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