Is it normal to want to get in contact with an ex? like from almost 4 years ago

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OK,
We moved really really fast when we started dating.... i think we dated for 3 days before we moved in together... i was moving into that town anyways and i was renting off him until i found other arrangements.. so it was a win-win situation........
I was younger than him by almost 10 years but it made no difference in my eyes cause i have always had a thing for older men... (i was 20 and he was 29)
I am a damn good looking girl too (might i say) LOL long blonde hair, blue eyes, hot body...so i was not desperate by any means even though my actions say otherwise...We didn't sleep together until about 2 weeks after that... ( oh and i was still paying rent!! LOL)
For moving so fast we had the best relationship i have ever had.. never fighting, just total honesty and love for one another
We lived together for almost 4 months.... he owned his own house as well
His sister was renting upstairs off him... she was about 400lbs of pure BITCH! he even told me that he hated her and the only reason she was there was cause she is family. i understood that of course and didn't pay it much mind..UNTIL she started lying and starting DRAMA! first she was saying i was cheating on him (i really wasn't, i never even spoke to anyone! hello new town??) he didn't believe it at all anyways... so she said that i wasn't allowed to go upstairs now cause she was up there and she hated me (for no reason.. i am a very proper educated girl.. raised by good people)
Anyways long story short..she black mailed my bf that if he didn't break up with me she was going to call the house inspection agency (my bf built a gorgeous basement with Jacuzzi s and hot tubes in it...with out a permit) So his almost $30,000 that he put into his basement would be torn down...
So I left.....we both cried and i never looked back...
i heard from so many people over the years that he was trying to contact me
almost 4 years passed
anyways 6 months ago he messaged me on Facebook... i didn't reply because i was not really using FB that often and by they time i did his profile was deleted

i want to get into contact with him but i have no idea how to do it! Does any one have any ideas? and dont say Fb or phone cause i have tried and nothing comes up lol Thanks guys!!!!!!!

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    "i heard from so many people over the years that he was trying to contact me"
    Those people may be able to help you.
    - OR -
    Look for his name in the phone book.
    - OR -
    Go see if he still lives in that house.

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    • beauty101115
      11 years ago

      i moved and so did he.... i am not friends with his friends anymore... i have tried to get into contact with his buddy taylor but i only have his work phone and i dont want to get him into trouble by callin it.... i would drive to his buddys work but its over 3 hrs away
      And he is unlisted.......8(

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      • GuessWho
        11 years ago

        If he's really worth it, you shouldn't care about inconveniencing his buddy.

        Phone his work phone during lunch, or just make a quick call to arrange to talk later.

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  • ValleyofVung
    11 years ago

    Give us his name and any other known details and we'll find him for you. A picture would be nice...

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