Is it normal to want to break up a couple for my own gain

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Basically there's this girl I'm into, and I have a feeling she's into me too... My problem however is that she's on/off with her boyfriend... Like he lives quite far away for uni so she rarely sees him... She's told me when she's not been with him that she's into me, but as soon as I pull up the courage to ask her out she tells me she's back with her BF again... Like am I being fucked over here or like should I just ask her out even though she has a BF...?
Also like we're pretty close too, and spend a lot of time together (nothing's ever happened between us tho)

Any advice/help would be appreciated

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  • richardgerecameinmyass
    7 years ago

    She sounds like too mich drama.

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  • AB1234
    7 years ago

    I'll give you a girl's perspective on this. Some girls feel a need to always be with a dude. It's how they derive validation. Or they feel lonely without a guy to dote on them. And the very things they'd freak out at a guy for pulling (like what's happening between you and this chick), the same girls pull on the sly. I have no respect--nilch!--for pulling shenanigans behind someone else's back. We're all free. If something isn't working, maturely let the other person know, and move on.

    But this on-again-off-again-involve-other-people crap? It can deeply hurt people's feelings and can make them super-mistrustful--so it can hurt society more broadly. Also, a girl who can toy with you behind the back of someone she's still entangled with can do the same thing to you in the future. If you want to really know who someone is, watch the way she treats people she doesn't like or no longer has much need for. Let's face it. Relationships nowadays are short-lived. So you're likely to be on the receiving end of the deceive-and-discard treatment eventually.

    Just this chick's two cents. Best of luck to you whatever you decide.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    If the main reason she's not with her boyfriend is due to him being too far away, then it's best to not get involved and find another girl to like. Because if she agrees to date you, and her boyfriend graduates and comes back, what makes you so sure she wont go back to him?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    Perhaps you should distance yourself from her and find a gal that won't drag you along.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Hahah you are whuppahed.

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  • NathanScot
    7 years ago

    Stop being a fucking twat. This chick is walking all of over you and you're here telling us how you're love her and all that shit.Dont you think if she really liked you as you say she would have left her be long ago for you. Don't be a dimwit mate, we already have americans for that. This lass is tagging you along. Open your bloody eyes. Cher, '

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