Is it normal to want to be held?

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I'm 20 and instead of fantasizing about sex, I fantasize about being held and cuddling. I mean, I'm interested in sex, too, but I just really really want to cuddle with someone. Or hold hands. I just want to be physically comforted and feel safe. Is this weird?

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  • Somedutchguy
    8 years ago

    I completely agree, I cuddle just about all the time with my boyfriend.

    I used to have that feeling while I was still looking for love. Now I am an addict and can't stop thinking about it.

    But sometimes I do get the idea I want a "desert" afterwards.

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  • LittleGirlViolentlySodomized
    8 years ago

    You are definitely a woman. Perfectly normal. After you get your cuddle I get my fuck 100% success rate with online dating.

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  • D'lirium
    8 years ago

    Discovered the concept of cuddling at the ripe age of 12, 13, or 14. Can't say I remember, since all those years seemed jumbled up together the same. Cuddling.. it was pretty intimate. I loved the idea of it. Oh, I still do, no matter how dirty I gotten. Damn, but I want to be held every night do I.. By big arms embracing me.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    I like to cuddle n Ima dude.maybe we can have a cuddle sesh

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    Do you like sex? There is nothing wrong with cuddling. It is comforting and relaxing esp. if it's with someone you love.

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