Is it normal to want to be friends after sex?

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I think that is what I want. To date and sex for a few months exclusively and then just stop the shenanigans and be good friends. It gets the tension out of the way and then you have a friend you know on a much deeper level than if you hadn't slept with him. Is it normal that I think this may be how I should live my life?

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Based on 13 votes (6 yes)
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  • Aries
    6 years ago

    It makes sense to me but emotionally most people aren't ready for that. it takes a special kind of person to be able to accept this . They will either develop feelings based on your intimacy or they will continue to desire your fuck sessions , especially if it was good sex between the two . It's hard to ask someone to shut that off as it's a very powerful emotion in itself , to desire someone sexually .

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    • radar
      6 years ago

      True words.

      In an idealistic hippie society that would be awesome but in reality you'll break a lot of hearts in the forge.

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  • ChrissySnow
    6 years ago

    I'm married but I kind of feel what you're saying has some real truth to it

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  • LionsMane
    6 years ago

    You're a slut

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    oh thats going to work out splendid for his next girlfriend, are you bat shit crazy today or have you always been nuts.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago

    Quite a nice solution if you've a heart of scar tissue.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    6 years ago

    This is great for a while, but not for ever

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