Is it normal to want to actually try to have a baby now?

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I had an ectopic pregnancy in December and lost my baby. It was an unplanned pregnancy but not an unwanted child. I'm 18. I really want to try for another baby...

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Based on 18 votes (9 yes)
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  • stopandthink
    9 years ago

    How is your relationship with your partner? Are you financially stable?

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  • TheExiledOne
    9 years ago

    I really think you should wait until you're older.

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  • wafflesundays
    9 years ago

    I had my 1st child at 22 best thing I ever did although I was a qaulified nurse with a alot of work experience and my partner was a builder so just make sure you arnt going to be a stuck for work afterwards or else you and ur bf will be depressed broke and prob break up... I would say not to try for another baby as I didnt have to question it I did for me and my partner no one elses opinion mattered so when ur at this level do it its amazing hard sleepless stressful life changing but the love is unconditional.

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  • brankinton
    9 years ago

    As long as you are financially sound, and that you are ready to take care of the baby, sure go ahead.

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  • caraphernilia0519
    9 years ago

    its totally normal.
    i wanted a baby at 15, cause i loved kids so much and i was 100% ready mentally. I was taking Early Childhood Education and Parenting Skills. But i knew that my partner wasnt ready and that i wasnt secure financially (living with mom, no job.) also, having a kid wouldve interfered with my academic studies. Plus, i was in highschool. im pretty aure my mother wouldve killed my boyfriend.
    now, im waiting for my partner to come home from the military, get married, and make a family.
    we would be MENTALLY and FINANCIALLY ready and it wouldnt effect our ACADEMIC STUDIES.
    keep those factors in mind. im pretty sure youre ready mentally. but what about financially? will this baby effect your academics?
    keep those questions in mind.

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