Is it normal to want this kind of relationship?

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By day I am an honest hard working middle aged gentleman and upstanding citizen. I consider myself a successful professional however my personal life is a complete disaster. I am single with no children and constantly suffer from loneliness and depression.

I recently turned 50 and have finally arrived at that point where I seriously start questioning my life choices. And one of the things I have seriously considered as wanting to experience before I die is having a young female pet. It would be my dream come true to have a young (18-23 year old) girl who I could personally provide for in every way including financially, emotionally, and physically. I savor the joy of owning a young female pet who would call me Daddy and turn to me whenever she had any problems at all. And only if she wanted it, I would spank her. But it would be my pleasure to pamper her and buy her gifts and provide my help and wisdom in any way I possibly could.

As I have pondered this idea, I realized I cannot afford to be too picky. I would love to help a young lady finance her way through college, just as long as she spent a few hours every night in my basement to keep me company. And I would be very flexible (e.g., 1 hour per night every day except Friday/Saturday, or 3 hours twice per week).

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39% Normal

Based on 31 votes (12 yes)

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Aries

8 years ago | pl

everything was going good as this is a sugar baby until you start saying you want her to spend time in your basement? what exactly does this mean..

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  in return for my services provided i expect in return the liberty of spending quality time with my pet, where she should act as a cute lovable kitten and obey the commands of her loving master. if she is hungry i will feed her and if she wants to play i will play with her
  
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VirgilManly

8 years ago

It puts the lotion on it's skin.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  8 years ago
  
  ...or it gets the hose again.
  
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  - VirgilManly
    
    8 years ago
    
    I'll be in my basement feeding my moths.
    
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dirtybirdy

8 years ago

I stopped reading at female pet.

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Aries

8 years ago

I have been in both DOM and s/b relationships and so I can understand this from a willing participant ( I was the s/b ) still same deal... what I don't really understand is what specifying "your basement" means .. you didn't just say spending time with you , you were specifically saying in your basement? you have a torture chamber down there or something?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  I believe that actual animal species such as dogs and cats that people commonly refer to as domesticated varieties are physically incapable of verbalizing their concerns. If a willing and consenting participant is to act out the pet fetish role play, she better be prepared to go all the way.
  
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  - Aries
    
    8 years ago
    
    maybe I misunderstood you , you want her to role play being a pet literally such as a puppy or something? Or are you wanting her just to be a submissive to you? I just didn't understand the whole basement factor what's that got to do with her submitting to you?
    
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thegypsysailor

8 years ago

I as all there for you and more than willing to share my ideas with you, until you used the word "pet".
You're on your own dude; good luck.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  why do you have to be so judgmental. pet is a term of endearment not possession
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    8 years ago
    
    bullshit
    
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  - sillygirl77
    
    8 years ago
    
    You're a full of shit pig and I can see why no one wants you.
    
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    - sillygirl77
      
      8 years ago
      
      Oh I was referring to the OP being the pig!
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        i know you are but what am i
        
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        sillygirl77
        
        8 years ago
        
        Mature... not only a pig but you quote pee wee herman.
        
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[Old Memory]

8 years ago

Try FetLife. there's people into the sugar daddy/baby thing and people into pet play on there. You might find one into both

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theseeker

8 years ago

You're messed up in the head. People aren't objects. In this case females, and shouldn't be treated as such, but that's exactly what you're describing. You should know that by now.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  the issue of legality does not enter the equation if all acts committed therein are consensual in nature. I perform a service and my client is contractually obliged to complete the transaction.
  
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KeddersPrincess

8 years ago

I want a pet too. Except I want mine to be a vampire that I keep in a cage in my basement. When he hisses or growls at me, I would strike him with a newspaper, and when he gets hungry, I can feed him my enemies. Just be happy your dreams are possible to obtain...or at least legal. :(

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  you are a strange little girl with an overactive imagination.
  
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RoseIsabella

8 years ago

You deserve to be lonely and depressed, you really do.
:-)

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- sillygirl77
  
  8 years ago
  
  Agree. Women aren't pets. You're gross. I'm not against dom/sub play, but actually thinking of a woman as a pet is gross. I can see why you're alone.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    8 years ago
    
    I had an ex boyfriend who told he wanted to be my pet, what a piece of work and dog poo he was. I ain't got time fo dat foolishness.
    
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    - sillygirl77
      
      8 years ago
      
      Blurgh. Glad you're rid of him. Life is too short.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        8 years ago
        
        Amen to that!
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Freedom_

8 years ago

Sounds more like a service than a relationship, but I'm sure you can find a willing participant. Why don't ya sign up for that sugar daddy website?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  how is this not a relationship
  
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NathanScott

8 years ago

Dont mind the judgemental cunts OP.This is completely normal. You have explicitly stated you want a girl above 18 years. At this age everyone is capable of making adult decisions.So if you can find a girl who will agree to it i say more power to you.Astrovia
Basement sex is hot.

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Nokiot9

8 years ago

Put up a CL ad. I bet you'll get a few. Be real careful how you phrase it though. U already sound kind of creepy.

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Springfurmich

8 years ago

oh my god, this turned me on. i would love to be on the other end but i'm underaged. also quite picky, especially when it comes to 50 year old men. i don't know if this is normal but everyone has their kink, don't they? each one more stranger than the other. anyway, i seriously hope you find someone for this.

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(s)aint

8 years ago

People need to stop being so judgmental, believe it or not there are women/girls around who would love nothing more than engaging in these kinds of games.

BUT, as a member of the fetish-community myself I must give you the harsh reality; As a submissive woman we get a LOT of attention and suggestions from men and I would not be that eager to engage in games with someone in your age ... ( I am 23 by the way)
And you can afford to be rather picky when it comes to the appearance as well so my suggestion would be that you ease up on the age-request and go from 18-60 and if you are no in the best shape you can be in- Start working out.

I have seen SO MANY Dominant men in your age that looks like lard-lumps with balding head and they all assume that the young, attractive woman in her early twenties would be interested in playing with them.

You have to make yourself as appealing as you ever can and understand that it is a hard task to find someone who would be willing to do all of this with you.

Maybe you should consider buying a whore to live out these fantasies with.

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- sillygirl77
  
  8 years ago
  
  This website is all about judging and as you see by the vote many people don't think the OP's wants are normal.
  
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