Is it normal to want submissive live-in maids?

Although I'm still looking for a wife, I also want to find a girl or two to live with me, to cook and clean and do chores and errands to save me time. I want girls that thrive on service-oriented submission, who enjoy strict rules and structure and goals in their life. Ideally I'd find girls with some kind of ambition in life... college, career, starting a business or non-profit... who would benefit from a rent-free place to live. I love the idea of having these girls help me out and attend to my every whim, wearing the sexy outfits I select, following my rules for what they can and can't do. There would likely be bondage play as well.

And unlike the paying roommates I've had over the years, I could spank these if they turn the house into a pigsty!

Am I crazy for wanting to find girls like these, or is it reasonable?

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  • How old are you? You sound like a dirty old pervert. Then again you might just be a youngster with no respect for women. Either way, if you are looking for a wife, like you say at the start of your post, you will need to seriously overhaul the way you think about women.

    I’m not saying there is anything wrong with a bit of role play and a bit of spanking, if you meet someone and are both in to it. But to expect someone to live that way for real is pure fantasy and it ain’t going to happen. The world has moved on, these days we have rights the same as men. You can no longer beat your wife for burning your dinner, when it was your own fault for being in the pub at dinner time instead of home with your family.

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    • Maid_in_Pink

      There are people who actually WANT to have that life though. I know I do...ish...I mean...yeah I'm just a strange transboi...BUT!! It's still something I have considered and even did for awhile. I was just a live in maid and sex toy for an ex of mine and it was pretty ok. I do have to agree if he's looking for a wife he probably shouldn't be looking for girl slaves essentially or whatever you want to call them, but there are people who actually like that kind of thing that would probably take him up on the offer and love every minute of it.

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      • Yeah but they’re usually men with a strange fetish to be dressed as sissy maids and humiliated by being ‘forced’ to serve their mistress, or in some cases their master, in whatever way he or she sees fit, whether that is domestic chores, sexual fulfilment or whatever.

        Finding actual women to live that way might be a bit more of a challenge for him. We tend to have more sense!

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        • Maid_in_Pink

          I've met women who like it, but I've been a part of that culture too. I'd say it's a higher percentage of "men" but the women are out there.

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          • Fair enough, I suppose it takes all sorts to make up the world. But I still think he will have a hard job finding one of these types of women. I get it if he’s talking about a bit of role play for the odd weekend or something, but I think he’s looking for women to live that way on a full time permanent basis. But maybe you could suggest a few websites for him to look at, you seem to be quite in to all that stuff.

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    • BrokenDisc

      Couldn't have put it better. Props

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  • Kitten84

    So I have read what everyone before me has said and I have to say that just because some woman have no understanding of why someone might want to live this lifestyle doesn’t mean no one would. You don’t have to be “men with a strange fetish to be dressed as sissy maids and humiliated by being ‘forced’ to serve their mistress, or in some cases their master, in whatever way he or she sees fit, whether that is domestic chores, sexual fulfilment or whatever.” I am a woman who is educated with a degree and a happy healthy family. Both parents who love and respect each other. I believe that you can not only have a husband or wife along with live in ‘toys’. My best friend actually has a husband and a child but she has a girlfriend and boyfriend and her husband has lovers he takes. They are in the lifestyle but it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other or their kid who isn’t around when the others come around so don’t go saying it is bad for the kid. If two or three or more people choose to live this kind of way it doesn’t mean that it is wrong. There are different ways to chose to live. No one has a right to judge something they don’t understand. It may surprise you just how many woman would love this life. It doesn’t make them wrong or weak in fact most of them are strong. The trust it takes to give away so much. To allow someone to control so much of you. To know that they won’t use that power and abuse that trust. You have to remember, in most circumstances there is a contract, this is there so that both persons can set a limit as to what is too far. Things they wouldn’t want done. Things they are okay with. The submissive holds more power than you know. There are safe words. There are things in place to keep all parties happy and safe. This isn’t like those horribly misrepresentative Fifty Shades movies/books. I think that he will not have as hard a time finding not only a wife but however many live in’s he wants. You just have to know the right places to find them and make sure that everyone knows the most important part is to keep open lines of communication. That is key. That way everyone knows how everyone is feeling and no issues arise from misunderstandings.

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  • Honeypot2000

    Haha ya we all would like a couple of sluts to fuck at a whim but that isn’t ever going to happen. Good luck with finding the wife. Best to keep such fantasies to yourself lol.

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  • Sounds so hot to me. I was always fantasizing about having a brunette maid with big ass that I can eat every time she bends over to grab my books.

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  • FrankenSpine

    So what you're saying is that you want a Bang Maid. (It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia)

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are you on drugs?

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  • curious-bunny

    Well you should let the girls pick there own outfits. Chances are you don't actually know what flatters a woman best

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    • Ellenna

      He's interested in having power over them so why would he let them make any decisions about anything?

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