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I'm engaged and have been with my fiance for 7 years. I feel like the man in the relationship. I want sex more than he does. Is this normal?
My girlfriend is like the energizer bunny sometimes. I enjoy it and she eventually drags me back in with a bit of effort. My advice is don't be discouraged by a no, because I've said no and she turns it into yes.
It's the same way in my relationship. I think it's because guys are fine to just rub one out and they're done while girls can do the same but it's just not the same as feeling the emotions we get from actually having sex.
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Guys feel emotions during sex too. Ask any guy, sex is better than masturbation always. The reason you want sex more than your boy is because the average desire for sex for men and women is the same. If you're above average desire, but he's not then you'll want sex more often than he will. Plain and simple. If your boy is jackin' it instead of trying to have sex with you, it is because he didn't want to have sex with you. It might be that he's not into you, or that he was just fantasizing about someone else. Either way, a guy physically can't get it up as often as a girl can take it. You might also be on different rhythms, you might not want it when he does and he resorts to dealing with an immediate desire rather than waiting to see if you want it in half an hour.
Yeah it's normal but if he does not want it do something else but DO NOT CHEAT ON HIM IF YOU LOVE HIM!
No! Its not normal. Not for me any way. My wife and i started when we were 18 . Of corce back then we could have sex 5 time a day! We went through our "party" fase and had threesomes and group sex we were both very horny. We are in our late 40s now and i want sex alot more often than she does. If your not getting satisfied now things are not going to get better. Is there a heath issue? My wife tells me that if she had her young body back she would be a sex feend again!
You wanting more sex than him is fine. How attractive are you. My libido goes up with woman I am attracted to and not so much with women I am less attracted to. One gf would comment how I wanted to fuck or perform oral alot and another would say I wish you wanted me more.
i am a girl if u want more sex with him just ask for more omg i feel really horny after reading the messages xxxx
Normal, but not as common as most would like for it to be! Dont change or think of it again, just enjoy things as they are and keep it new and exciting for both of you!
My married male friends often make excuses to get out of sex. And most women's sex drive seems to increase in their late twenties and early thirties. It's fairly common, I think.
Basically, I think you are the perfect girl and should dump him and come fuck me :3
What dappled said surprises me, as it's usually the men wanting more. Well it is with all the people I know anyway! But I'm in a similar position myself. I want more sex than my boyfriend, which can leave me feeling a bit rejected.....
It seems to be totally normal for most women to have a higher sex drive than men, particularly in longer term relationships.
I have the same problem and when i confront my bf he says that im crazy and that he wants sex just as much as me. He is the first person Ive been with that has made me feel like im not sexy enough! So I know that Im not just imagining things. We are both in college and I feel like im too young to be feeling this way. Our sex is great I just wish he would initiate it more (or at the very least, not turn me down)! Idk what to do since he won't even admit the truth.
It is normal, but it is not common, usually men want sex more than women do.
I am totally with you on this... I LOVE sex... i really think I'm addicted.. seriously.. I feel like I wear the pants in our relationship.. When he gives it up (lol)... its great... mind blowing.. but I'd still like it more than we do... ;) * I also get extremely sexual frustrations from not having it... **
I have the same problem... It's frustrating sometimes, but my bf has taken up a ton of responsibilities recently so he's usually really busy and/or tired. But it's ok.
had a friend one time tell me he had a problem
his wife wanted more sex then him my question was what is your problem
one thing you must do is take the beer away from him or his drugs and high blood pressure
nothing kills sex like beer wine ect and drugs and if he is taking precription drugs talk to his doctor
I'm not sure if it normal or not. My husband works away a lot. When he comes back, he's ready for it. If he stops working away, I might find that I'm hornier than him.
not all us guys are hump-machines. sometimes, we don't wanna fuck.
be careful to not make him feel pressured because that can take the fun out of it...
not sure about moral suggestions... but it is ok to have a high sexual drive...
In my opinion it is normal. You can have fun more. It is your body. Talk to him and get more from others. Try it by short dresses and mini skirts to turn him on in front of his male friends. Then little by little whisper in his ears in bed "Fuck me like a prostitut." It works.
Everyones different as long as you love eachother and whrn u come to having sex you both feel it is the right time xxx
You want the real reason it feels like that? Because you do want sex more often than he does. The average male, and the average female want sex just as frequently. So a girl that wants more sex than the average female also wants sex more often than the average male. It has nothing to do with a guy being willing to "jack it". Believe me, guys want the real deal more than they want to do it themselves. A normal guy will always choose actual sex in any position over masturbation.
yes! Peoples bodies develop differently. I've even read books before that say all sorts of similar things (twilight saga), and seen movies too. It's normal! Maybe your body developed faster than his (which is normal for girls), or maybe he's just scared. Talk to him, find out why. Maybe he's uncomfortable, or doesn't know how. Sex comes naturally, so whenever the right moment, when you're both ready, it'll happen.
I'm having the same problem, except we've only been together for a year. I also feel rejected and like I don't turn him on enough. When we first started dating we had sex every single night. Now not so much.