Is it normal to want my grown up child to die?

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My daughter who is almost 29 is the worst daughter one could possibly have. She is mean to her mother, ugly, and arrogant. She never listens and borrow money from me which she never gives back. She has a good job then why does she bother asking me for money? I just wish she dies. I have been a great father, given her food, paid for her uni fee and all that. But now i have come to believe that she did not deserve any of that. I wish i had given her to adoption or aborted her. I did feel the same way when she was little. I did give her less attention on purpose then her brother who i do not have any complaints about. I bought him better things then our daughter. So over the years i am developing malice and hatred towards her... why? Sometimes when she comes over i just want to put poison in her drink or something. Now the thing is i don't understand is why i do or did this. IIN?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago

    "I was an asshole to my daughter and played favorites while she was growing up because I was too childish to be the impartial and loving adult that I should have been and now she is a total asshole and I wish she was dead already.".

    There, I fixed your story for ya.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    What an evil dad you are.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you brought this on yourself, asshole! When people play favorites with their children it should be no surprise when the non favorite resents them.

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  • DADNSCAL
    8 years ago

    Face it, you've been a terrible father. If you can't change and love her, keep her away. Maybe if you showed her some real love, you'd get some back.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why not just stay away from her? Even if someone is family, I don't see any responsibility to spend time with those you dislike.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      What do you mean by staying away from her? If you had children you would know how difficult it is to keep them away. With my wife who is always happy to have them home, what do you expect from me? I did get to hit her with a wrench though, when she was drunk and acting inappropriatly. But then she started bleeding and then my wife started a big fight with me. All this did lead to her not coming to our house for six months.
      If you have ideas or ways to keep that imbecile bitch away i would gladly appreciate them.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        You're a father from hell and I feel sorry for your daughter and I don't understand why your wife is still putting up with your violence towards the daughter

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Well, you sure are assuming hell of a lot by thinking I don't have kids. I just don't happen to hate them enough to want them dead.
        I wouldn't fight or talk to her, I'd just ban her from my home. If you can't be comfortable in your own house, it certainly isn't a home, is it?
        Whatever problems that leads to with your wife, you'll have to deal with. Maybe your wife will just have to visit your daughter at her place, huh?

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          So he hit her with a wrench and SHE should be banned? Pity she didn't go to the cops and have him charged

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            First of she had no right to come to MY house. I think the sailor guy understand the situation better, we may as well be of the same kind. The problem is that i don't even think she hates me. But i would like her to do that. Because then she would come less to my house. But that would not erase the problem. Because this creature would still be existing somewhere with a DNA same as mine. I find that repulsive, i find her repulsive. Thats why i want her erased from the family tree and earth. I am just becoming more hatful towards her over the years. I don't now why?

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago

              Gypsysailor has his faults but I can't imagine him hitting his daughter with a wrench, no matter how drunk she was. He's just very oldfashioned about children respecting their parents, but not enforcing it with violence: well that's my impression anyway, I'm sure he'll correct me if I'm wrong

              There's something seriously wrong with you and your attitude to your own daughter and if you don't know why, why take it out on her?

              I can't imagine why she doesn't hate you or why she hasn't reported you to the police for assault and I'm assuming she came to YOUR (ONLY YOUR?) house because her mother and possibly siblings live there or it was a family gathering? Don't tell me it was for xmas - peace on earth and all that......

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  • tammara123
    8 years ago

    stay awaay from her or just try to make someone kill her for u or learn her some respect for u and her mother

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Just suffer the consequences to your poor parenting.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    Tie her up and hide her in the shed.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I like this one, but i dont want to go to jail, although if you know of any ways to put her there, plese let me know.

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  • coricarter
    8 years ago

    disown her and cut her off, dont kill her thats way to much or talk to her about it

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      It sounds as if he already disowned her when she was a child and now wonders why she hates him

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