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I'm not quite sure when it was that I started wanting one, but the idea of having a teensie tiny little wee wee is very arousing to me. I have arousing fantasies of masturbating while my penis shrinks to impossibly small sizes and want to know, IIN?
I hope you don't plan on pleasing anyone but yourself with that tiny thing.
Every single dude I knew was either satisfied with their penis size or wished it was bigger. Never have I come across someone who wanted a smaller one. I'm not insulting you or being mean, but that fantasy just seems odd to me. Then again I shouldn't be saying shit since I want smaller breasts. XD
I have a theory. Since most guys equate penis size, logically or not, with masculinity, when their penis is smaller than average, they feel like less of a man. A lot of men think their only purpose is life is to bag and please as many women as they can in their limited time on earth. This is the sad vast majority of men, it seems. Then there are gay men. Penis size is just as important among them.
But there's probably an even smaller minority of men who are either uncomfortable with their gender/masculinity or uncomfortable with sex or their sexual, or non-sexual (whatever the case may be) nature. This might cause them to resent their own primary and secondary sex characteristics. They probably don't want muscles or body hair or a strong jaw line, but their number one enemy would probably be their penis.
I have a friend who (he told me in strictest confidence) feels like a monster when he's with women because he's been shamed (by being bullied about his body size) into thinking that he's some sex-crazed oaf of a rapist everytime he's with a woman. So arousal for him comes with guilt. I bet if someone saw their penis as some disgusting, destructive and very separate entity from themselves, they may wish it was smaller or cuter or.. just "less in-your-face". They may not have gender dysmorphia, but they probably have body dysmorphia. Anything's possible.
I met a guy in a chat who HATED being tall and hairy, and he wanted to look like an asian guy or a really young teenager, not because he thought it was what women wanted, but because he didn't think his personality fit with his body. We all might experience this in minor ways, but when it takes over your life, it's a huge issue.
Men are expected to be macho, right? But some men don't wanna be what they think will earn them respect from other men or admiration from women, they only care about how they view themselves personally. I think this is a trait more common in women, so women might be able to better understand, as in the case of your dissatisfaction with your breasts, despite the majority of men preferring larger ones. Some women would rather feel cute than womanly, as some men would rather feel cute than manly. It's almost like they're ashamed of being mature adults and being judged for their mature sexual attractiveness, especially when sex, or at least traditional sex, might not be their number one priority.
I suppose that the OP is either a troll or has an unusual fetish, by the way he worded his post, but I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and offering up this explanation if there's anything to what he said beyond the fetish-aspect. I hope this makes some sense. (:
Be careful what you wish for ;) I might aswell shoot myself in the brain, do surgery or adopt a different lifestyle or sexual orientation if I had a penis smaller than 8cm/ 3 inches. Just the thought of it provokes anxiety. So I believe it's not normal. A very peculiar paraphilia.
I didn't think this post made much sense, but your comment makes even less. You'd shoot yourself? Really? Is sex really all you have in your life? That's sad.
And what do you mean "adopt a different orientation"? How would that help? I don't think there's a difference between gay men and women when it comes to the proportion of shallow size-queens. Plus, there's not really a button you can push to change that anyway.
Maybe I'm odd for not caring and not giving this penis stuff much thought, but I'd feel like such a freak if my biggest concern in life was related to the organ I excrete waste water from...
Well, perhaps you have misinterpreted my comment, I was being sarcastic. In a way, if I didn't had a regular size penis I wouldn't be able to enjoy sex with my partner and that would limit my chances of having a loving relationship with a woman, which would have several implications, that subsequently would lead to depression and suicide.
It would only be logical that I could consider the option of turning into a Transgender like many do and enjoy passive sex through anal stimulation.
While I could adopt a lifestyle where it's possible to maintain a healthy mental state through celibacy it would be always be something hard to cope with.
I know the OP is trolling us and no one in a healthy mental state would desire such.
Usually, I like to err on the side of assuming someone's being forthright; in the case of the OP and in the case of your 'undetected' sarcasm. Of course, it crossed my mind he's a troll and it crossed my mind you were probably using hyperbole, but I've gotta treat what people say as what they truly believe, because that's what I expect from others. If this guy really wants to be understood and everyone thinks he's a troll and treats him as such, I'd like to be the one person to believe him, whether I understand his opinions/preferences or not. (Being believed is half the struggle)
I think the internet already has FAR too many people who are combative, defensive, untrusting, and anti-social. They don't give an inch, and they don't take an inch. It's so predictable, and nothing can be accomplished this way. It's not some huge laud to your reputation when you're always sceptical about others, just like it's not a shame on your family if you 'let' a troll trick you. It's called giving others the benefit of the doubt, and it's quite healthy for both parties.
When you say things like "I KNOW the OP is trolling us", that's alienating the OP. Having doubts or being unsure when you don't have enough evidence for a definite answer does not make one wishy-washy, it makes them logical and open-minded, as opposed to stubborn and presumptuous, which is how most of the world comes off ninety percent of the time. Do you really wanna be like EVERYONE else? Instead of being instantly dismissive, be supportive and thoughtful until you have reason to act otherwise. (: