Is it normal to want a guy to like you even though you no longer like him.

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Okay,I went to a house party a few months back and made out with a guy for the whole night, we didn't have sex or do anything of that sort. We texted and talked on FB chat the whole week after. At another party at the same house the same think happened and we continued talking, next thing he stopped texting me back, never said goodbye on fb chat, and the following week he is in a relationship with another girl...GREAT. I was devastated I Wondered what was wrong with me why didn't he want me? I lost 2 stone in a bid for him to like me again and after he and the girl broke up he was flirting with me and I thought maybe he liked me, but low and behold he is going to ask another girl out in a few weeks time. I Don't like him any more as i don't find him attractive and his voice irritates me but that is besides the point as all I want is for him to like me so that I can tell him to F off. Sorry is this normal or desperate please answer truthfully.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    It seems like he was playing you, or giving off the impression that he wanted you when really he didn't. He probably wanted you to drool over him more than anything.

    I wouldn't worry about it. However, I understand how you feel, and why you feel the way you do. I've been in a similar situation. I think its best if you just leave it alone. He's not worth it. Don't give him any of your attention, and make it known that you don't want him anymore. Thats when you'll see his ego deflate.

    He seems like the kinda guy who gets his kicks from girls who give him attention. He's really just flattered but wants nothing to do with them. And as for the girls he does want, their relationships probably wouldn't last anyway, because he sounds like the type who bounces from girl to girl.

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  • iceboy27
    12 years ago

    No

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  • beastiessister
    12 years ago

    hun, Don't you see that he's treating you badly? He sounds really shallow to be honest. Not worth your time at all. He can't do that to you and if you think it doesnt matter then you obiously have isecurity issues forget about him.

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