Is it normal to want a girlfriend who is asocial?

I have never been a big fan of being around people. I don't think I'll like being with someone that constantly needs to socialize and be around friends 24/7. is it normal that I would prefer a girlfriend that does not want to be around friends all the time?

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Based on 14 votes (13 yes)
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  • mari_98

    I totally get what you mean only cause I used to feel this way. Till the middle of this year I didn't really have true friends, who I'd do stuff with and so. So when I thought about having a bf I just wanted him to be the same way as me, I wanted him to be a guy who wouldn't really have much friends but me (bc I'd be the center of his life maybe?). But the thing is, how was I supposed to meet him if he was antisocial? It may not be your case, but I knew I had to be more social, so I made new friends and I can tell you I have never been more happy in all my life, and no longer want an antisocial bf

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  • arthurtheaardvark99

    I'm the most antisocial guy you will ever meet, like I literally almost have no friends, but I think it would be interesting to have a girlfriend who is pretty social and really opposite to me in some ways. I mean considering that at least we had some things in common I don't think that two people being in a relationship where one is social and the other isn't is such a big deal, maybe. Sometimes I actually fantasize about becoming rich one day and marrying one of my favorite female celebrities. And of course like you'd imagine that would be crazy! She would be super popular with all her fans and friends and contacts on social media and in real life and I would be so not into that lifestyle but I like to think that love would prevail over all the superficial things like that because deep down as people we all have the same dreams and desires, at least that's what I believe. And people should be able to connect to each other no matter what, sometimes all it takes is a little spark.

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  • clevertrevor1

    Basically you are a loner who would prefer to live the life of a hermit, nothing wrong with that pal!

    Don`t delay, go down to the woods today and build your shelter, I am sure that you will find some "Hippy type chick" that would be more than willing to join you!

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  • CeliaRamirez

    I broke up with my last boyfriend because i went to go shopping with my friends and he thought i was cheating on him.Hes also looked through my phone st night when im asleep.I often wake up to catch him doing this.I stopped sleeping over st his house and cut off all contact.Im 15 btw

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    • RoseIsabella

      Good for you!

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    • Ok thank you for your history that I totally asked for in the question...

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