Is it normal to want a girlfriend this bad?

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I'm 30 unemployed and live with my parents, have no friends, and now we are doing vacation at the beach and there are so many pretty girls here I just can't keep my eyes off them. A lot of them walking around with their boyfriends and it makes me so jealous. A lot of them in bikinis which is the best invention ever. On the sand, boardwalk, and streets too. Or taking showers by the boardwalk after coming out of the ocean. Even a lot of pretty little girls with their mothers and I keep imagining taking them for a ride.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Sometimes I think I would like a girlfriend. Then I remember how much they nag and get upset over things that don't matter. Enjoy being alone while you are.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      It's easy for you to say that, not being in my shoes. I'm tired of hanging out with my family all the time. Maybe there are sides to being in a relationship that aren't positive, but I can't stand the loneliness anymore. I desperately crave companionship. I want a girl to tell me that I matter and that I am important to her. Just something so simple that can make a big difference to someone.

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      • MariaLoves
        8 years ago

        Message me anytime!! I can tell you what you want to hear!

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago

    People who don't have a friend nor a significant other, should seek the former first instead of the latter. Sure, there's no substitute for sex, physical intimacy, and the level of emotional transparency that you get in a rship. But having even 1 close friend can help appease your desperate disposition which, imo, will only drive away your potential interests

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    You can only expect a solo ride being 30, unemployed and living with your parents.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    There is no easier girl to have fling with, than a girl at a beach resort, far from home. If a guy can't get laid there, he'll probably never get any.
    Just ask any surfing, water skiing, diving or sailing instructor in the tropics!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I don't have a tan or 6 pack.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        If a guy can't get laid there, he'll probably never get any.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          thats not true, most girls are not whores and will not sleep with any random stranger even at the beach, and it's hard in the first place to find single females who aren't vacationing with their boyfriend or husband. i am not wealthy or physically desirable either.

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            You are way too young and admittedly INEXPERIENCED to be telling me what's true about women. No wonder you are such a loser!
            Try listening to the answer instead of jabbering away about things you know nothing about, especially when YOU asked the fucking question.
            In more than 50 years of being around tropical beach resorts (actually, I learned this at about 15, in Hawaii) all over the world, many gals, from young school girls to elderly women, including married women (and especially well off newly single women), go specifically to tropical beach resorts to have a sexual experience. They are far from home and far from prying eyes and their neighbors, so they are free from the restrictions of their normally rigid lifestyle.
            This is fact buddy boy, not an opinion, whether you like it or not. It doesn't make them whores, just human.

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            • victorygin
              8 years ago

              C'mon fella, you really think a 'body parade' of the sexy and scantily clad is the "easiest" place for a balding, chubby 30 year old geek* to get laid??

              Sure, women go there to have sex. But not with insecure, unemployed 30 year olds with no self esteem.*

              Different situations play well to the different strengths of different people. I seem to hook up with women at weddings, but that doesn't mean EVERY guy gets laid at weddings.

              I think that's the closest thing to a fact here.
              Nobody gets laid by going to a never-ending visual reminder of what an unattractive loser they are.
              A beach resort is clearly screwing with this guys confidence and chances of success with the women.

              I'm just sayin... so don't get shirty with me!!

              *OP, sorry! Just exaggeration and speculation to make a point. You're probably much more attractive than you give yourself credit for.

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