Is it normal to try to get my ex girlfriend back?

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okay this is what im goinng to send to my girlfriens at new year and im hoping it will get her back, we have been apart for about 3 monts now but i still love her and im hopig she loves me too. but i want to know wht other people think of what im going to send to her soo...

Dear ....

you was the best thing to happen to me in 2011, the best thing to happen to me ever actually and i cant believe i lost you but i still love you alwayshave and forever will. ill always treasure the the time we spent together and never forget the memorys we have.
like the time when you tried to run away and you ended up staying at mine the night and fell asleep on me and then i had to meet your mum and dad for the first time or the time when we could of had our first kiss but you moved cause you was scared and then felt bad and gave me a kiss bacl later.

i was a terrible boyfriend and a bad friend and im so so sorry for that cause you deserved better and still do.

i think about you everyday and will never forget you. id do anything to have you back but its my own fault your gone, i want you to know im alays here for you. (i might not be good at it) and if you ever need someone to talk to just give me a text or a ring.

youve got the nicest family i have ever met and there all just amazing

your always be in my heart and and good luck for 2012 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

if any of you are wondering we was together 6 months and we broke up because of arguements and stuff

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  • Gfrigo
    12 years ago

    You come off as way too needy. This just shows her that for the past 3 months you thought about nothing but her.

    You're essentially lowering your value in her eyes. It's hard I know I've recently had a tough break up. But if you want her back you need to show that you are of higher value and not the same guy she dumped

    Your letter comes off as desperate and no girl wants that. Show her your a real man that doesn't need her. Sometimes all it takes is a little space and time with no communication.

    Trust me if you stop talking to her for a while she'll be curious as to why the guy who was so into her isn't in her life anymore. At which point if she has any feelings for you she will definately initiate contact.

    If she doesn't, then she doesn't deserve your love or time and you will just have to move on.

    Trust me bro there are more girls on this planet than any single man can ever meet in his entire life. Don't get hung up on one who doesnt deserve your time, because there are plenty more.

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    • lukeeyy
      12 years ago

      we havent talked properly in about a month we just have little convos to see how we are.

      if you could write me something i could use i would love that and i am desperate, desperate for her love

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  • tylar
    12 years ago

    I haven't been the same since we've broken up. I feel like half of me is gone. I love you and I will always love and care for you. I cherish the memories we had together. I miss you so much. I'm sorry I didn't treat you right, but I promise if you give me another chance I'll treat you how you are suppose to be treated. I promise I will be better. I promise that I have changed for the best. I want you to give a another chance or just think it over. just one more chance is all I need an I will prove to you that I am better.

    write something like that, just reword it more to your liking

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  • crunchtime623
    12 years ago

    Dude get the fuck over it. Grow a pair and move on!

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  • RunSte
    12 years ago

    I hate this story...

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    • lukeeyy
      12 years ago

      why do you hate it?

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  • Gfrigo
    12 years ago

    No don't write her anything. Don't even text her. NO CONTACT. I know it sounds outrageous and crazy.

    But trust me if she's worth your time, she will come back. If she doesn't, then you'll know it's time to move on.

    There's more than enough girls that are willing to accept your love. Trust me I know how you feel man. It seems impossible to move on when you can't stop thinking about her.

    The feelings aren't easy to get rid of. But in the meanwhile cut off contact and work on yourself. Change something about yourself for the better. So the next time she sees you she'll think, "this can't be the same guy I left". Make yourself so that she feels your too good for her.

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  • tylar
    12 years ago

    if she declines you then move on bro. don't waste your time

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i like it and good luck also happy new year

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