Is it normal to threaten to kill your child when you lose your patience?
My husband has a history of domestic abuse towards me. Mostly emotional, sometimes physical. When our daughter was 6 months old, I heard him say "I'm gonna fucking kill you one of these days" because she wouldn't stop crying. He swears that he didn't mean it, that he was just losing his patience with her. She has gotten on my very last nerve a few times, but I have NEVER threatened to hurt her in any way. Is it normal for him to say these kinds of things to her?