Is it normal to think this way

Okay, I`m not the most popular dude....I`ve heard that if you are confident people and girls will like you...but how are you supposed to be confident when no one likes you in the first place...Is it normal to think this way?

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Based on 43 votes (36 yes)
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  • You are truly confident when you start not to give a shit what people think.

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    • stonecutters93

      I can honestly say that put a few things into perspective for me, and I'm not even the one that posted this. Great answer!

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  • dappled

    Confidence doesn't come from other people liking you; confidence comes from liking yourself.

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  • My confidence is just there whenever I need something. If I don't need something then I'm just not bothered by people, they mistake that with not being confident.

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  • PR1938

    Hey, I'm a girl and I'm in the same boat as you. But you know what? You can't let what other people think bring you down. You have to live your life for yourself, not for others. The girl attention, well that will come in time. (I know for me, I don't care whether a guy is popular or not). First you have to surround yourself with positive people, and "fake it until you make it". That's right. Act confident. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. You're gonna make it, I promise.

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  • SaintPhoeniix

    Don't be ashamed of yourself, be who you are and people will like you for it.

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  • emilydoll

    And also not care what other people think.

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  • emilydoll

    Love yourself.

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  • MissClaire

    Its hard to feel confident when your confidence is determined by if people like you or not....... hint hint ;)

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