Is it normal to think that i am lesbian?!?!!!?

I happen to see the Skins series (season 3 & 4) and I can't stop thinking about Emily & Naomi couple (they are gay)...... I mean they're really lovely!! I even started to imagine ME in that situation.. It's distracting me so much that I can't even concentrate at school.. Now I'm so worried that I might be gay D: I mean I want to kiss Emily!! and that's not normal ;( Having sex with girls IS disgusting, but I want to KISS girls sometimes.... Am I gay or just lonely :S

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  • Opheliawoo

    If you like girls, you'll know it. There's no need for second guessing like 'I think I MIGHT be a lesbian'.
    Personally for me I never thought I liked guys at all and it just came naturally.

    Chances are you're probably just looking to experiment or you're bi (if up until this stage you never thought of girls sexually) not gay (:

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  • cubicmint

    I agree with the other comments posted above but I would also like to add a little something.

    There is also such a thing as the Kinsey Scale. It suggests that most people are neither 100% straight or 100% gay. For example you can find a member of the opposite sexy attractive in a sexual way as sort of an idea but can still class yourself as straight. Its a grey area.

    Personally I wouldn't worry about it. Some girls are just plain hot, wanting to kiss them doesn't make you gay it just means you have eyes lol.

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  • iisabel

    its normal to be gay...so its normal to think youre gay.

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  • hentaifan

    dude, its completely normal 2 wana fuck a girl. Its not disgusting & way more fun. and also, most girls take better care of themselves so their kisses r sweeter, their touches r softer, & they're not as rough w/ u.

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  • Gaby101

    It is totally normal :) One day me and my bestfriend went to a club and we drank a little and grinned a lot..When we wen back to the hotel room we started making out, we both had boyfriends at that time but we were a bit tipsy.. So we were making out on the bed and she took off my bra and I took off hers and we kinda had sex,I didn't feel bad or stuff I felt good cuz I kinda wanted to have it with her ....so in the morning we woke up and we were topless and we questioned did we have it? Or did we just went topless? And I always wondered if I am lesbian or was it just a one night stand... But then when I was making breakfast she started touching me kissing me and one thing went to anther and we ended up having sex and we had another lesbian moment :)

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  • girlygirl5

    Well, i felt that way for as long as i can remerber, but never told anyone. I just put it off as being curious and expirementing, but today i came out to my best friend and myself. Maybe you are just curious or you u could be lesbian/bi and afraid ro acknowlege it

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  • jenjen06

    Lol that's not nice to say sex with girls is disgusting....just sayin!

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  • gabby690

    i would say your bisexual hun and its a stage in life every teenager goes through, at the end of the day everyone is who they are hun and its totally normal, so dont worry. you will make your mind up eventually xxx.

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  • black_sheep123

    many teen girls go through a bi-curious stage dont worry, its completely normal

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  • Pornstarfiend

    It's just experimenting & trying new things. Its just most people are too shy or worried to tell others about it incase they get teased or laughed at. I'm a straight guy whos got no shame in saying i've experimented with my best friend (whos a guy) & enjoyed it & SHOCK HORROR EVERYONE! We still do it even though we both have GF's. Its totally normal

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  • OH MY GOD!!!
    Your just experimental:)
    Have fun,!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You need to get ahold of your hormones before you go to school.

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    • Mundoxde.bibi

      Seriously? Advicing a teenager to 'get ahold of her hormones'? HA. Keep on dreaming!

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        That's what I get for beating around the bush (pun intended)

        What i was really trying to say was... Rub one out to get the edge off so you can concentrate on school instead of some tv show.

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  • syriandiamond

    Maybe youre just curious? You see them as being a lovely couple and that's something you want.

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  • BoredGuy

    You need some good old fashioned banging.

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  • Eore

    Actually being gay is quite common in the animal kingdom; so saying it's not normal or natural is wrong. You might like girls, who cares. Life is short; experience all that you can.

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  • kyanviado

    Les or bi, nothing wrong with that, try and kiss a girl

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  • Ritual_Dismemberment

    Bi-curious is the word. You should find a woman who is either bisexual or a lesbian and have a relationship with her. If you find you just can't get into it or it feels to weird then you are straight and just had girl crush. If you find you can love her not just physically mind you but also emotionally then you are probity a lesbian or bisexual.

    Homosexuality isn't just the ability to be sexually attracted to someone of the same sex but also to be able to emotionally fall in love with someone of the same sex.

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  • tigerrloverr

    I think your just curious i was the same way. And if anything you could be bi

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  • Nope, maybe u r gay or bi, but that's ok too, don't ever doubt that it makes u anything less than u, cause u r who u r and just trying to figure out whether u really like CHEESE or not is hard enough to do, so figuring out if u like. Person, with millions more gd and bad qualities is so much more different because not all straight girls like all guys so y should it b restricted to just guys because there has to be an opposite there somewhere

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  • zundervall

    Simple logic would say 'so go and kiss her and get it over with', but reason would probably say 'don't go there. Any chance you might have in having a normal relationship with this girl will get flushed away if you just act on impulse'. Get to know her first. You may discover that finding a friend will be more rewarding that the thrill of stealing a kiss. Besides, think of the ribbing you'll take.

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  • sweetybug7585

    This is VERY normal just experiment and have fun with it

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  • VeggieChick918

    trust me those feelings are natural... i mean humans are pretty much naturally curious

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  • CooKieMaGneT

    Oh totally normal, no worries about that. Girls always have those curiosities. Not all.. and most keep them to themselves.

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  • AgingEnglishHippie

    Although I am, as declared, not normal, this is a description only; don't worry about feelings; you aren't the first to feel them; anything is normal if it's what you feel; it's Society which has the problem, hence curbing behaviour which Society considers outside the normal

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  • mintchocolatechip

    a lot of girls are experimental. your probably experimental and most girls kiss others girls but there not bi or gay

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  • curiouschicky

    yes, I agree, I think it's normal to want what they have, you probably just see that they are very in love and you more than likely want that in your life. I think it's very normal.

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