Is it normal to think that a relationship is work?

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so, we broke up because we were apart most of the time - school, work, etc. he got sick of long distance relationship and dumped me. I agreed because why would i want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me, right? my question is, is it normal to think that relationship is work and not the phylosophy that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    It shouldn't be work. If it is then it's not worth trying for.

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  • one_guy
    13 years ago

    Pretty much every relationship is a lot of work. Like compromising for example. So I say yes.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    well if you are meant to be together then i dont think a relationship should be all that hard. of course you are going to have your ups and downs but to have to work at it constantly isnt good. you should be having more fun than anything. but i dont think long distance relationships are good. they never work out.

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