Is it normal to think single people are happier?

Recently I've taken to analysing couples, not fictional or celebrity ones, just real people I know and I'm honestly starting to think that single people are (sometimes without realising) happier.

Frankly their partner wastes their time, they become obsessed believing they're dating a shinning beacon of a person who in reality is a fairly generic run of the mill individual, but they memorise every insignificant detail of their sweetheart's life, becoming a walking encyclopaedia on their life and lack-of-works. And don't get me started on the hours of melodramatic analysis over every questionable move they make.

Dating someone places restrictions on how they live their life not only do they feel that they can't drink, go to clubs or talk too much to the opposite sex but they seem to pathologically need to update each other on what they're doing, where they are, who they're with, giving a non-stop narration of their life to their partner at the expense of actually living it. This doesn't cease even when they're at one-off events like concerts and expensive foreign holidays.

Finally relationships come with the heavy weight of compromising on future dreams, I've seen people turn down studying abroad to avoid being parted from their partner.

Basically I think single people can actually live their lives without bending over backwards to accommodate their mediocre partner. Yet most of them end up pinning for the never ending compromise that most relationships seem to morph into once the honeymoon ends. Thoughts?

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  • Shhshshs

    Really just depends on the person and who they're with, honestly. I was extremely depressed before I met my boyfriend. Some people have shitty relationships and some don't. It's not any more complicated than that. People usually tend to complain more than talk about all the good things thatve been going on with their SO too, so you never really know. You never hear about what good things have been happening half as much because there's no need for venting.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I find your comments to be eloquent and insightful, you're right on point as far as I'm concerned. If your post were a YouTube makeup tutorial your eye makeup would be on fleek!

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    • SkullsNRoses

      This comment legitimately brightened my day, cheers.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Right on! Thank you very much.
        :-)

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