Is it normal to think she's interested?

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Hello all lurkers of this forum,

I'm in a bit of an online/irl dilemma here with a pretty cute girl i used to go to school for a very short time two years ago.. I still have her number actually but i never really called or texted her well because i didnt know what to say and well i dont know her very well, I talked to her a couple of times though and we really hit it off, she texted me after I got I'll for a long time and tho and i replied ofcourse but sometime after that we just lost kinda lost contact.

Well anyways some days ago i signed into my email and it signed me online on the chat thing, I had not talked to this girl for a loong time but as soon as I went on, prolly like 10 seconds or so she went like, "DUDE, how are you?" yeah well we talked and it was nice, and then she told me these really bizarre things, that she got bullied and stuff wich i didnt know nothing about and that she stopped cutting herself recently and stuff, I didnt know anything about this ofcourse so i was shellshocked, cause she didnt look like that type at all.

And she also told me something about a couple of guys at her school asking to "marry her" or something, lol and i assume that was a joke. gah

Anyways im pretty into her, but not really sure what to do here cause im really blizzed out by all of this.. Do you think shes into me? thanks for any advice =)

She's interested. 17
I don't think so. 15
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  • pala
    12 years ago

    I'm not sure telling you about her history of being bullied or cutting herself is really come on. Maybe she wants a friend to confide in.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      Yeah, that's a sure fire way to end up in the friend zone. In my experience, many women are uncomfortable with dating men that know so much about them, especially when that phase of their life is over.

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  • Corleone
    12 years ago

    Sorry, I'm afraid I can't tell you that. I don't know what you and that girl are like. If I had to guess, I'd say she's interested, but it's still a guess. I can't know for sure.

    Are you interested? If you like her, then you should start flirting with her. Maybe she'll flirt back.

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  • eeep
    12 years ago

    I think the 'friend zone' thing is a bit stereotyped and kinda out of date. (I wont say stupid though I kinda want to...crap I guess I just did sorry) What about the im dating my best friend happy stereotype? Anyways if you think she is cute and you like her than try to hang out more. Talking in person is better, you can be friends with people online but if you want to date her than im guessing you want to be closer to her than to a computer. If you are afraid of rejection you won't get anywhere but since you guys havn't talked in awhile try to get to know her first. Don't pretend to be or act indifferent im blatantly calling that stupid. I don't know many girls that want someone not interested in them. If she acted indifferent to you, you would think she wasn't interested right? Get to know her and if you still like her ask her out. If she reject you than you guys will either stay friends or drift away yet again. If you like her try to stop her from drifting away but if your afraid of rejection you will get nowhere. I say go for it!

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  • Kimi.b
    12 years ago

    Doesn't sound good , she sounds like trouble, act indifferent towards her , you don't want to be stuck as just friends , girls want what they can't have , so you don't want to be the shoulder she crys on anyways ,

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    I think she's interested. Keep the contact going and try to flirt a little. See what happens.

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  • wunderbarr
    12 years ago

    I mean honestly who the flying f tells that for someone when they havent talked to them in what one year or two? I sure as f wouldnt do that, It's a mindfck basicly cause i dont want other/random people to listen to me stopping with cutting i/e whatever, Cry for attention? Probably, but i cant do shit about it so i mean why tell me this? crp... come on. why would this be of benefit to her any ideas?

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  • ITgirl232
    12 years ago

    it sounds like she's into you as a frend. talk to her every once in a while to check up on her and keep the contact going, as well as the frendship. afterall, you'd rather have her in your life as a frend than not at all right?

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