Is it normal to think my new fiancé is going to get back with his ex-wife

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I feel like my fiancé is going to get back with his x-wife later down the road.They have a 5yr old daughter together and I'm scared to death to have kids with him because I think they will one day get back together.He is in the army he got married to her when he was 18 and she was 16.They were married for like 8yrs.He always says stuff to his daughter on the phone that him and his x wife use to say to each other.I know this because he told me some things also I went through his stuff.He keeps all there pictures in arms reach and he has her belly cast of her daughter in our closet.i told him I didn't want it in my room and put it in the storage and he got really mad.I understand that was his first love but I don't want their stuff from his past marriage laying around my apartment.I don't know what to do I'm suppose to marry him in June.he needs to let go of his first marriage first tho.I feel like.What do u think?

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Wow. I'm sorry you have to go through with that. I'm dating a military man who was married before too. He married young but they were only married for a year before seperating..and had no kids. Anyways, no matter the time, there is no excuse for him to keep pictures of them. Pictures of his daughter, sure but none of the family pictures. Geez. I found a picture of my bf's ex wife when we first started dating..it was gone after 2 months of dating or so. It really doesn't sound like your fiance has moved on from his wife. You really need to work something out with him together or hit the road and find someone that loves you and only you.

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    • Sunkissed82
      12 years ago

      Didn't realize I should have typed this under reply lol I'm new on this site.

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    If they don't get back together they'll at least fuck.

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  • BluntsRolled
    12 years ago

    Why do people feel the need to get married so much these days? It wont keep you together and only complicates things if you happen to separate. As you can see his first marriage didn't work out, why would this one? Especially when he has a daughter and lingering feelings.

    Do yourself a favor save your self the headache of even getting married, I feel like that's a HUGE commitment and people now a days don't take it no where near as serious as they should

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  • Sunkissed82
    12 years ago

    Thank you for the reply.Yes it sucks to feel this way sometimes I think it's a lot of my own insecurities.I mean about the thoughts of them getting back together.She now has 3 other kids with another man(the one she cheated on him with)and she's getting re married also.I think that he's the type of guy that has a really hard time letting go once he loves someone.I think that he's over it but I think he still has feelings for her as the mother of his first born child.I am going to marry him because he's a great guy and he would do anything for me.If I still feel this way a couple years down the road than I will get divorced.Im going to school rite now and taking care of my 7yr old so I don't want to jeopardize my schooling or not being able to spend as much time as I get to spend with my son now vs being single cause he does help me out with the bills and everthing else.I am relly excited about getting married also cause this will be my first marriage.Your thoughts were appreciated.Thanks again:)

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