Is it normal to think girly girls are a paradox....

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They are "feminine." They love to dress up.They will die without make-up. They hates dirt. Guys say they want a feminine girl. The girl doesn't have to be smart .She can play cute and focus on being sexy for the man. But most likely, a girly girl will never,or seldom cook. She hates chores. She may not want babies cuz she's afriad she would get fat.She cares more about herself. Yeah she feels insecure. So she depends on the man to give her all she wants. She will stay at home,but she will never be a mom....

How can anyone call these kind of women" girly"? Or feminine?

A truly feminine woman will know her role, will care about her family,do chores around the house and loves children.She may not like makeup,she may
have some "manly" qualities. But she knows she's a woman and she lets her man be the man. Thats feminine.

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago | pl

    Spoken like a true red neck... Lol.. "a true feminine woman will know her role" ROTFL...... hahaha.. Wipes tears from eyes... Do your own damn laundry mamma's boy!! LOL!

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago

      do your laundry your work take care of everything in the house and at the end of the day tell me i'm gorgeous... better stick to prostitutes i still have all the work but at least it's cheaper

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  • howaminotmyself
    12 years ago

    Please don't confuse your misogynistic views of a woman's role with the true qualities of the feminine.

    As your post would lead me to believe, the feminine spirit lies far beyond the realm of your understanding. Feminine does not mean female. They often have a lot in common but they are not mutually exclusive. Feminine energy is just that, energy. It has no sex. The feminine is open, nurturing, receptive, loving, compassionate, welcoming, healing, and creative.

    She holds the secrets of that which is hidden. She is the facilitator between your conscious and unconscious awareness. She gives of herself selflessly for the benefit of all. She is unconditional love and emanates this to all life without judgment, prejudice, or distinction. She is sensual, erotic, and invites you to play. She is inspiring. Her energy is graceful and gracious.

    When in proper balance, the masculine energies represent the same things. I think many societies have forgotten that we are one. It does us no good to be one or the other. We need both.

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  • Wyomingite
    10 years ago

    I relate to your woes regarding girly girls, since I have two for younger sisters, but I'm confused by the 'know your role' thing. My role as a woman is whatever I want it to be, not what I 'know' it to be based on what people, both men and women, expect of women.
    I swear like a sailor, never wear makeup, hike, camp, climb trees, and burp unashamedly. I love skirts and dresses, scented candles, cute animals, and fuzzy blankets. I'm so adventurous (read: reckless) that the ER staff in my hometown knows me by name.
    I feel just as feminine covered in mud, blood, and sweat as I do showered down and dressed up for a night out. Femininity is a mindset and a belief about yourself way more than it is a set of sociocultural definitions. If you feel feminine without makeup, doing chores around the house, letting your man take the wheel - power to you. It sounds like it works for YOU and that's what important.
    Rock on, Sister.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Asian women are the most feminine because they are subservient to their men. I'm not talking about Asian women in America or Canada, they just chase white guy's dick. Although Asian women in Asia are changing too. Soon true femininity will become an extinct notion left to the history books

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    • Wyomingite
      10 years ago

      Femininity is an aspect of human identity that deals with subtle emotions and concepts associated with being female. It MEANS feeling like a girl or woman, usually like a successful, confident woman - it does NOT mean being viewed as "correct" by men or even other women.
      Examples of femininity include feeling sexy, feeling at peace with being romantically uninvolved, feeling accomplished in traditional female roles/activities (motherhood or marriage being prime examples), and so on.
      It is NOT a specific society's definition of appropriate female behavior, such as subservience to men. The fact that you have confused the two suggests to me that you have no real conception of femininity, which is both disturbing to me as a world citizen and unsurprising to me as someone taking several gender studies classes.
      I really don't mean to troll, but you, sir or ma'am, strike me as a misogynist. I would politely suggest that you broaden your intellectual horizons. Reading female autobiographies is an excellent and relatively painless way to start.

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  • Skitzo1
    10 years ago

    Women don't have a specific task to accomplish, true in terms of life and reproduction they are there to give birth and become pregnant, but they can do their own things, so lay off 'em

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  • SaintPhoeniix
    12 years ago

    You're either a redneck or you time travelled here from 1897.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Hah, interesting perspective. Also.

    If this sentence is not a shrimp, it's a paradox. Shrimp paradox. It's a thing.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Jeez, a true woman will know their role?

    You're an ass. Get over the fact that people are people, and wont change.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    ^ haha!

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  • timebobbu
    12 years ago

    A true woman must
    1. smell what the rock is cookin

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  • What'sMyName?
    12 years ago

    ^ Haha! I couldn't get over that line either.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Girly and worthless high maintenance are two different things.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    touchê my friend, Touchê!

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