Is it normal to think fingering myself is considered non-virgin

my bf of 6 years wants to be the first one to put it in but doesnt want to risk getting pregnant..? weve tried it and the condom broke but we slipped it off in time. But, Is fingering considered being not virgin? ive been mainly rubbing and all, just curious.

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Lol wut? You tried sex but the condom broke, and your wondering if your a virgin because you've been fingered? What the actual fuck?

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  • MissWolf

    You've tried it and the condom broke? If you've tried sex already you're not a virgin

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  • Clunk42

    Nope. Fingering oneself does not classify them as "not virgin."

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  • controversy

    lol

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Virginity is a social construct.

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    • RandomNumbers

      Bullshit.
      Value to virginity may be considered a social construct, but virginity just means that you never had sex. How stupid someone must be to not realize that?

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

      Ya another driver at work shares my tractor with me and when I got done fueling it he walked up and opened the door right after I ripped a brutal fart in there which made the whole cab smell like dead rats. I played it cool and got out and he got in and shut the door immediately. I laughed at this. Then I clocked out and went home. Thank you for sharing..

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    • leggs91200

      I tend to think once someone has touched another in any sexual manner, they are not a true "virgin". One might be a virgin to certain activities but loss of sexual innocence by physical contact pretty much nullifies virginity.

      Heh, in my case I would be hard pressed to think of any aspect of my sexual innocence still intact

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  • DDJenny

    Don’t worry about labels. Virgin, not a virgin... so what? Enjoy yourself sexually and learn how to use condoms so they don’t slip off and get on the pill.
    As for labels, most people consider penis-in-vagina as the standard for losing ones virginity. So if that label is important to you, finger away, do oral, anal, or whatever else feels good. Labels are bad and don’t define you.

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  • graphic_nature

    Condom or no condom, cum or no cum, you are not a virgin anymore. There are many birth control options available so sex is not off the table, doubling up is recommended like IUD and condom or pills and condoms so the risk of pregnancy is much lower. Otherwise finger away, no harm there.

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  • ellnell

    Yeah if you think so.
    There's not really anything to break like they used to think that officially makes you a non-virgin. Well there is for a few women but it's not common.
    Anyway you're definietely not a virgin if you had sex...

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  • SmokeEverything

    Nah thats lame just have actual sex.

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